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What’s your gender? Man
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual

First Threesome with Longtime Friend

How long ago did this hookup happen? 10 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I dated D on again off again. We always had sex whether we were on or off. We were off at this time but still hanging out with the same friends and hooking up. D was about average height with big round tits and a big round ass. She was thick without being fat.

I had been friends with H for years and years. It was completely platonic until very recently. We hung out all the time and often slept over at each other’s places. A few weeks before, I asked H if she was interested in a threesome; she said that she was in and that resulted in us having sex right there for the first time ever. H was a short blonde with a nice body, cute face, and nice perky c cup breasts.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was at H’s place on a Friday night. She had some ecstasy and all three of us took a small amount. H called a “friend” over and as soon as he arrived they went into her bedroom and started having sex. D and I started having sex in the living room. Probably about 30 minutes later D was laying face down on the floor with me undulating on top of her when H popped out and asked if we could cover up so her friend could leave. After he left, H went to bed. I asked D if she wanted to have that threesome we had always talked about and she said it couldn’t hurt to ask.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? D and I both walked into H’s room completely nude and laid down on the bed on either side of her. I asked her if she was still interested in a threesome. She was slightly skeptical, but I said, “Let’s just kiss and see what happens.” So I gave D a brief kiss on the mouth and then H a brief kiss on the mouth and said, “Now you guys.” They immediately entered a long passionate kiss. D worked her hand under H’s t-shirt and started massaging her tits. They continued their kissing while I moved down and pulled off H’s gym shorts exposing her freshly fucked pussy and started sucking on her clit. Eventually, D worked off H’s shirt and all three of us were nude. I moved back up and joined in kissing them both while rubbing my hands all over both of their bodies. After a little bit of this, D pushed me onto my back and mounted my dick with her pussy and started riding me. H was laying to my left kissing me while D was fucking me. After a short time, D got off of me and guided H on to me. H started riding me, her pussy much smaller and tighter than D’s. D got behind H and started licking my balls, my dick, and H’s pussy. D eventually worked two fingers into H’s pussy along with my dick. I asked H if that was okay and she gave an approving moan. That went on for a while and I think D may have also been moving her tongue over H’s ass a little bit while she was running it over everything else down there. Eventually, H hopped off and guided D back into that same position and did the same thing D had just been doing. That went on for a long time. Eventually, D got off of me and laid on her back next to me. H got between her legs immediately and started eating her pussy. I got behind H and entered her from behind while she was eating D’s pussy. After a few minutes of this, I decided I just wanted to watch for a while and laid down next to D. Shortly after, she came to a screaming orgasm. As soon as the orgasm was over, they both got up to their knees, kissed for a minute and switched positions. I kissed H while D ate her to a screaming orgasm. D laid down on her back next to H and they both seemed exhausted. I said, “I haven’t cum yet,” and got between D’s legs in the missionary position. I fucked her pretty hard for a few minutes with my arm also around H until I blew my load inside her pussy. After this, we all went to sleep for the night.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We all slept together that night and talked fondly of it for the next few months and said we should do it again. It never happened though.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? MDMA, ecstasy, molly

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? MDMA, ecstasy, molly

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Lifelong memory.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It only happened once.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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