by Alex Moore

Gender: Female
Age: 23
Race/ethnicity: Latin
Location: Colombia
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Student
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Catholic
How religious are you? Not at all
What best describes your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? I like men
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 1
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

First Time And Run

How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One-night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? A college student, we met through a chat, gave me his facebook and continued talking on that medium, we speak in a months before meet us, he was always the one who spoke to me, is a year older than me. He’s a hippie, by his speech and knew that if something happened between us that will be a thing for a single night, everything  happened the day that we meet us for first time, he had been drinking the previous day with friends and when we got to his house I take a shot of tequila, his dress was something relaxed for my taste, but I was attracted to his way of thinking, it was quiet and very respectful, also looked very anxious because he smoked cigarettes constantly, but never did that next to me, he went out to the patio rear of his house, is someone with whom you can have an interesting conversation, and I could tell he likes independent films and unconventional.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The first time we talked on the chat he asked me if i want to meet him, I said no and was the same it for the next 4 months, we did not talk too much due to the time that was connected to facebook I was not, one day I was in my work, had had a very busy week for work and my college and told me that if we meet us, but I was not ready for something more because he many times tell me that he want have sex with me and for that reason I do not wanna to go to meet him, but my curiosity win to my reason, and I wanted to experience, we meet us in a neutral place, talked for a while and then he invite me  to go to him home, I said no and then a moment and for a acceleration I told him yes, he could not believe it and went to his house, he was alone, his family was out of city.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)?How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We got to his house and asked me to teach him to dance salsa, we dance for awhile because on the way to his house we talked a lot of our life, after dancing we started kissing, I told him that he knew I was virgin and I told him before and I told him that I did not know if I was ready to lose my virginity that night, he told me that there was no need for fun that I lost my virginity. He started to touch me, I really enjoy it but I did not take my clothes off and stayed for about half an hour, suddenly it started to rain heavily and he asked me to stay, I said that stayed me but I told him that if i stay I can not sure to him that something happen, he told me he did not care.

So with the rain that was falling, I did not had another one to stay me, he offered me something to eat, and I suggested watching a movie, we follow talking and started kissing me again at a time began to kiss my neck and stroking with his hands my body, down to my pants, there began to introduce his hand down my pants stroking my vagina above the underwear, then he began remove my clothes off and touch my vagina with his fingers, then I felt what for me was an orgasm, and the truth i think that i had four orgasm more and I felt well, then he started to do me oral sex, I did not do anything to him, because I felt strange, did not know why my body reacted that way, I moved and moaned against my will and more to try to contain myself could not do it after a while to do what he was doing, stopped because I was very tired, was not even able to speak, then I apologized to him for not being able to please him in the same way he had done with me, but he told me not to worry, that he felt the pleasure with only show me felt orgasm that he was satisfied.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We do not have penetration.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I wanted to experience my sexuality, I wanted to know how it was having an orgasm.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? The previous day had taken a lot with friends, but it was niche when things happened between us, and get a glass of tequila and I will not take anything consumed.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After that I got dressed up and I went almost running, because I did not know what I had to do on that time, after a couple of days I felt so bad for leaving that way your home and I told for Facebook and i asked how he had finished go and he told me that good, I told him that I had to change to  home and he told me that he had to do the same, and the truth at that time I got angry because I felt that he said with the intention that I going to not to I appear out of  at home him , I did not if he think that i was a crazy girl or what.
I felt something really strange almost do not tell my friends because I felt scared because I am not a kind of girl that leave that her emotions speak for her my friends did not judge me more encouraged me to talk to him again but things were strange, he suggested me a new  meet me again but I refused. I never wanted anything more than one night with him because we did not share many things, I had times when I wish to see him again and be with him again but he has not become me to speak and I am very proud as for the talking for him

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told with my friends they can  believe the things that they are listening, because I’m a virgin and I do not usually do that kind of things. They supported me and asked me to do something like that again to continue experimenting.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? That was consensual he do not had feels for me and I do not have feels for he.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I do not know sometimes I regret is the way in which I went, in other makes me angry that had not insisted me for something to happen again directly and not on-air, as if waiting for it to be me which take the lead, but the truth I liked the experience and I think has some brilliant ahacer. The problem is that I have not found with who.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Maybe it was the first time I was able to be naked to someone without feeling shame, even though he was a stranger, the worst is that I have not been with anyone else after that, but e sporque’m not very attractive and conosco man I do not propose me, and I think that casual sex is a very good strategy to explore your sexual tastes.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? I want to know if they think it was very risky thing I did, because sometimes I have considered losing my virginity to a stranger.

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