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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Surgeon in Training
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly gay/lesbian
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

First Time Bareback

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 weeks

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was an asian boy i met on Grindr who went to another graduate nursing school associated with my school. He was short, cute, a little chunky, and had a small but cute penis. I was excited to find someone to hook up with safely since he told me he had just been tested and wanted a monogamous fuck buddy.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? he came over my apartment after meeting on grindr.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? First oral and hand jobs. We did 69 and i also at some point was rimming him. The hottest time was when he came in my mouth without me using my hands. Another time he was fucking me standing up and came inside my asshole. We then took a shower and I felt his cum dripping out of my asshole which was new for me.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt hot and wanted it to happen again. But then i met someone else that is cuter.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely, Submission / Relinquishing power, Boredom, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friends they were supportive.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? cum in my ass for first time.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? not 100% sure if he had actually been tested

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? yes probably made me more risky

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? people should be able to do whatever they want if it doesn’t hurt others

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? cool! wish i could search by gender and gay so i can read gay sex stories i saw a lot of straight ones.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!