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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? PH
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Online freelancer
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 13
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none

First time in forever

How long ago did this hookup happen? Yesterday

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Average guy, we met through a dating app. Not the first time to hook up but definitely this one’s different because he is a total stranger who I just found kind of interesting and smart.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We both suggested it since we’ve been both on a sexual hiatus for 2 years -we’re both from break ups and never had really had sex with anybody since then (At least that’s what he told me!)

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It was great I guess but was kinda too short. No anal stuff involved. lol. Safe sex, yes. It felt like a great relief from all the stress I was experiencing. He did pretty much well – I liked his sense of dominance. We had an after-sex talk as well -we both are interested in music so we did talk about that, and also a little about my tragic experience (no judging please, i know i know that was kind of overwhelming – i was actually looking for a friend and a sexual partner)

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I would like to do it again but not sure if he feels the same way too. He is kinda overwhelmed or maybe scared to get attached as we both agreed there should not be any attachment to develop. I’d love to see him soon though

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? none. not planning to tell anyone about it

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? great sex

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? left me craving for more

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? i’m not really sure about that

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? do it at your own risk.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? it’s a sort of help for those who want to find something relevant to whatever they might be thinking or going through

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!