What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 45
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Math teacher
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? No
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Eight
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? One

First Time Foursome

How long ago did this hookup happen? One week

What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually

How would you best classify this hookup? Group Sex

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? These guys were very handsome cleaned shaven. I didn’t know them but I was in New York City for a wedding and met them in the bar of my hotel.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was sitting at the bar having a drink and they came over and we all start talking. They were telling me how beautiful I was and asked me if I was staying in the hotel. I told them I was and they mentioned that they were all there for a business meeting. They then asked me if I would like to go to one of their rooms for drinks. I said sure.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After a few more drinks in the room, one of the guys said that I was probably hot in bed and asked me if I had ever had a foursome. I said no. Then, they asked me if they could lick my pussy, to which I agreed. So, we all undressed and they were licking and rimming me. My pussy was dripping with cum while another guy lubed my asshole and fucked me doggystyle. All three of them were taking turns fucking my ass. It felt good and they were talking to me with respect. They were all very good lovers with big cocks. Afterward, we showered and they asked me out for dinner.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup, we exchanged phone numbers because we all live in the same city.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, Making new friends, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My girlfriend. She said she always wanted a threesome and wanted to know how it was.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? We already met again for another round.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Casual sex is great as long has its agreeable with all party’s involved.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex works for me. And I like the role it’s plays in my life!

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I like the Casual Sex project. You can express on paper about your sex life without judgement.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!