by Thomas

Gender: Male
Age: 31
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Current location: living in Belgium but originally from Germany
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Occupation: Photographer
Relationship status: Married
Religious affiliation: none
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? ~10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none

First Time Full Swap in Swingers Club

How long ago did this hookup happen? ~1 year

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One-night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My wife is an attractive blond with a female body and perfect breasts. The other couple was older than us (early forties). I actually don’t remember them to well since the light was very dim in the room we met in. They both had a more or less average body although I would say they were slightly on the chubby sight. She had pretty nice breasts though. We didn’t know them before and and since we didn’t talk or meet again we don’t know anything else about them.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We had just found out that we like to go to swingers clubs and parties a few months before and this was maybe the fourth time we actually went to one. We had been swapping one or two times, but always just for making out and some oral. At that point we’d been a couple for more than ten years so “just” making out with other people was already quite exciting and a completely new experience for us. The Club was nice, but the crowd totally wasn’t what we were looking for. It was the first time we were on a party where not only couples and women but also single guys were allowed and there were way more of them than couples or women. As soon as one couple started to play in one of the rooms the whole “pack” would follow them and try to get involved in every way. That was totally not what we were looking for.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Luckily they had a couples only playroom with a nice jacuzzi. So my wife and I decided that we would make the best out of the situation and to enjoy ourselfs. We went into the jacuzzi and started to make out slowy. We were kissing I fingered her, she blew me for a while and finally we fucked a little with her being on top looking towards the entrance of the room and a large bed that was next to it. At some time another couple must have entered and started to get it on on the bed. My wife though saw it and since she liked the guy she got up and out of the jacuzzi. I still hadn’t noticed the other couple, but she now took my hand and pulled me out of the jacuzzi and towards the bed. We lay down next to the other couple and started to make out a little. At some point I my wife around and started to fuck her doggy style. The other girl was giving her partner a blowjob just next to my wife’s head. Suddenly just when the other girl pulled her partner’s dick out of her mouth my wife just grabbed it and started to blow him. That was pretty hot for me and I was about to come. But just a few seconds later I noticed the other girl next to me. She pulled me out of my wife’s pussy and started to blow me. Although that was pretty hot I also got a bit nervous and I noticed that I my dick was about to get soft. So before that happened I pushed her on the mattres and started to lick and finger her which she really seemed to like. She orgasmed after few minutes which was pretty hot for me and got me hard instantly. So I grabbed a condom but it on and started to fuck her. That was actually – apart from one not worth mentioning time before I met my wife – the first time I fucked a woman other than my wife. I started slowly since she had just orgasmed, but soon started to fuck her hard and she again seemed to enjoy that a lot. Being able to fuck her and at the same time seeing my wife fuck another guy and seeing her totally enjoying it was probably the hottest thing I had experienced so far. After maybe fifteen minutes fucking we swapped back and I fucked my wife until we both came. The other couple was still fucking when we left the playroom and went to the shower. Since it was already around 3am and we had quite a long way back home we got back into our clothes and left.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? My wife and I and the other woman did. I don’t know whether the other guy had one.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We used condoms for sex and put on new condoms everytime we swapped

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? We just felt like doing it. The situation somehow was just right.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? My wife had a few drinks, but wasn’t drunk. I didn’t drink anything since I had to drive. The other couple didn’t seem to be drunk but they probably had a drink or two

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We just left without exchanging names or anything. We didn’t meet them again. We stil go to clubs every now and then and we have been swapping just for oral and also for sex a few times since then.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? None of our friends or family know about our activities. Of course we talk about our experiences to other people in clubs. I’m not sure we’ve talked about this particular situtation.

My wife and I talked about it afterwards and came to the conclusion that we both liked it.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Consensual

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best thing was that it just felt amazing. Before we weren’t sure if we wanted to do a “full” swap, but afterwards we knew we wanted to do it again if the situation was right and we both felt like doing it.

There was nothing really negative about this experience. The only thing was that it was the first time I had – for a few minutes – difficulties to stay hard. It has happened one or two times since then when I got too excited about the situation and couldn’t focus on the main thing 🙂

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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