What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 58
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Attorney
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Jewish
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 63
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 5

First time having same room sex

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1979

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was in college and my girlfriend was a smoking hot teenage high school nymphomaniac, she craved sex constantly. I came home for the weekend to see her and we went on a double date with another couple to see a movie.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? When the movie ended, we walked outside and there was a blizzard going on. I knew we were not going to make it far so I drove to my parent’s home which was close the theater. The blizzard got much worse and my mother called the parents of the two girls to let them know everyone was safe. The girls were told to sleep together in the guest room and the other guy was going top sleep in my room.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Around 3 am, the girls snuck into my room. My girlfriend and I got into 69 in my bed while the other couple fucked missionary style on the floor. It was smoking hot having sex in the same room with another couple, watching them and being watched. And the thought of getting caught by my parents made it even hotter. My gf was so turned on, she not only had multiple orgasms, but she squirted for the first time.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next day, the roads were too iced up to drive so the four of us walked to the grocery store to get some food. We did not talk about what happened then but later my girlfriend and I talked about it alone and agreed it was a hot scene.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My girlfriend and I discussed it the next day and agreed it was hot to have same room sex with another couple.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? First time same room sex, came multiple times. Girlfriend squirted for the first time.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Made me want more same room sex.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I had never been with a girl who squirted before this time, had never had same room sex before this time. It was a very hot scene and I can remember it as vividly as if it happened last night. And this was 37 years ago!

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I love sex and I think casual sex is the hottest of all sex.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it!

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