What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 38
What’s your race/ethnicity? Middle Eastern
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? France
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Businessman
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Curious
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 11
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

First Time Sharing Wife

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Group Sex

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My wife was 29 and I was 34 at that time, my friend whom I invited over was 26.
I had known him for a year when I introduced him to my wife. My wife and my friend had been texting for quite a while and had good chemistry going. She knew I wanted to watch her with him, so the stage was set.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The hookup began when he came to meet us at our home. Our kids were with their grandparents so we had the whole house just for us. It led to a long kissing and oral session before they got into it. No one initiated it, it just sort of happened as we were pretty drunk.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Initially, I left them alone when things were turning naughty. I had to pee, so I went to the washroom and made sure I took my time. When I came back, they were kissing passionately, but as soon as they saw me they stopped. I told my woman to keep going, but she just paused. They were sitting on the sofa, so I held her hand to make her stand and started kissing her. I took her shirt off and told my friend to remove her bra and he did. As soon as she was topless, I turned her around and he started kissing her and sucking her boobs as I took her pants off.
Before I got up, I saw him licking her while she was standing. I asked my friend to take his pants off and saw his cock. She held it tight and they both did it on the sofa while I watched. It ended when he came all over her tummy.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Well, he left after a bit of chit chat and we fucked like bunnies as soon as he was out of the house.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? We were all in on it

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It changed our life from boring in bed typical married husband and wife to hot horny in bed couple.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The guy was a lot bigger than me and it took me a while to retake my woman.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It just made it even better.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s amazing and I really enjoy people’s stories. I love the format, how it categorizes and how questions are put forward making it more interesting to reply.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!