by W

Gender: Male
Age: 29
Race/ethnicity: NZ European
Current location: Christchurch
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Occupation: Sale & Marketing
Relationship status: Newly in an Open Relationship
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

First Time Swinging

How long ago did this hookup happen? Yesterday

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Swinging

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We had never met these people before. The women was in her early 30s, the man in his mid to late 30s. The man was very good looking, the women was fairly chubby and a lot larger then I would have ever considered  doing anything with.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My partner A (22yrs) and I decided to try going along to a swingers evening for the first time. We talked to a few couples and watched some people having sex. We saw a man receiving a blow job from his partner on a couch. We walked over, I sat down and I started touching my girlfriend’s breasts while she stroked my cock. After a while, the woman next to us tapped my girlfriend on the shoulder and asked if she could touch her. She kissed my girlfriend, and after a while started fingering her. Her partner asked me if he could touch my girlfriends breasts and for a while both of us were sucking on her tits while his girlfriend fingered her.  After a while, we stopped and they asked us if we wanted to go to a bedroom and we went.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? At the start we got into position where the man was eating my girlfriend out, while she licked the vagina of his partner and she sucked my cock, we alternated between this, me kissed his partner, me fingering my girlfriend and her sucking his cock and me fingering his partner.  I fucked his partner for a short time but my cock wasn’t very erect so we gave up. She helped my girlfriend suck his cock while I fingered both of the girls for a while and then I fucked my girlfriend from behind while she sucked the man’s cock.

It ended after a while and we introduced ourselves to each other but didn’t really talk much after we went to get cleaned up. They were very respectful, the man asked my permission to touch my girlfriend (he couldn’t ask her as she was being frenched by his partner) and she asked my girlfriend before anything got started. Even though I couldn’t fuck her for long, there was no problems and she was very understanding. The man enjoyed having his cock sucked by two girls and as did I, enjoyed watching the girls eat each other out.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? No one had an orgasm, but we still enjoyed ourselves. This was their first time swinging as well.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? The women asked me to wear a condom before giving me a blowjob. I changed my condom after fucking her before fucking my girlfriend. She didn’t think to get the man to wear a condom when she was sucking his cock, but she said she doesn’t like the taste of condoms anyway.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Try this swinging thing, have new experiences, have new sexual partners, discover variety in my sexual style and challenge my sexual comfort zone.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? We’d had a few ciders, we weren’t that tipsy at all. They didn’t seem to be obviously inebriated.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We all went and used the toilets, I didn’t see them after we came out. We went and hung out in the lounge and talked to other people for half an hour, but then went home as my girlfriend was tired. She gave me a blowjob when I got home and masturbated herself later.  I’d be open minded at trying something with this couple again, but I wouldn’t necessarily pursue it. I feel very happy we all had a good experience and I feel like me and the other guy ticked several of our wish fulfillment boxes.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my best mate, he was surprised and possibly impressed.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, consensual for all of us.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Fingering two girls at once, my girlfriend tasting pussy for the first time, fucking my girlfriend while she sucked a cock. The worst, probably that I wasn’t very attracted to the female partner. This experience has shown me I can do swinging, that it’s an enjoyable experience and that casual sex is fun.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? I’d only ever had sex with two girls, the first my girlfriend for 4 years, the 2nd, my current girlfriend of 1 year. I liked getting to experience something I never thought I’d have the chance to experience.

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