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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 45
What’s your race/ethnicity? Native American / Alaska Native
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Canada
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Mortician
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 42
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

First Time Threesome MMF

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2008

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My girlfriend C and I talked about trying this out. We went to a gay bar in my city. She selected the guy. A white male. We went back home. Turns out this guy had a background in the medical field. He knew about proctal exams and performed them at work. I was more curious at the time. My girlfriend C had this fantasy of wanting to watch two guys fuck. So I didn’t want to disappoint.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My girlfriend instigated it. She planned it. I had been to that gay bar in the past. The fun began at her place. It brought us closer together more.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end?

I told my girlfriend I was somewhat curious about trying it with a man. When the guy came to our place. He gave a steller bf. Way better than what girlfriend gave. He inserted a finger up my anus and sucked me to no end. My girlfriend was kissing me and she stripped naked right there in the kitchen. After which I came with a large load everywhere. It took ten minutes for him to suck and he tickled my p spot. I felt like I was going to leave my body because the orgasm was so intense. I never sucked a cock before but the doctor told me how to do it. He gave me step by step instructions on where to rub my fingers as I stuck them up his bum. I sucked him for 15 minutes until he jizzed in my mouth. It tasted minty. I later watched him fuck my girlfriend. I couldn’t believe how much I was turned on watching his ass pump up and down on my girlfriend. My cock got stiff again. He then asked me to stuff his ass as he was fuckin my girlfriend. It took me 25 minutes to cum in his bum. After which I kept my homosexuality in check. My girlfriend was enjoying herself and we each took turns for 4 hours that night. MM, Me and her, her and him. Sandwich. I will never forget the excitement I felt for a man. I still love women more. That was a one-time thing. Nowadays I go to bathhouses to give blowjobs to anonymous men. Apparently I am enjoyed by many. But that is where it does my side gay deeds.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? My girlfriends are no longer together and I never saw that guy again. Needless to say, I have had 3 girlfriends since and 4 trips to four various bathhouses in 3 Canadian cities.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel more confident, Didn’t want to disappoint my partner

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My close friends. Non-judgment. Surprised at first.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The best blowjob of my life and learning how to give pleasurable blowjobs to others which apparently I mastered.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I am still a closet bisexual.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No. But I would do it again in a heartbeat if the next girlfriend insists upon it.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Fuck society’s religious attitudes which are where the judgmental attitudes stem from.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great

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