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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 47
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Saint Paul, MN
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Installation Analyst
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? First Bi experience of my life
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 8
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

My first time being used by two strangers

How long ago did this hookup happen? Roughly a month ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? J was roughly 35 years old, about 5’10 and 220 lbs. Brown hair and blue eyes. He was wearing a business suit and still had his tie on. T was also in a business suit and tie and was roughly my age but taller at probably 6’4″ and lanky, thin.

I me them both at one of the bars in my hotel in downtown Nashville, TN while on a work conference. That day had been our last day working in Nashville on a big project and there was a cocktail reception in one of the ballrooms. After the work party I had gone down to the lobby bar and met both J and T for the first time. They were both from out of town also and did not know each other before meeting in the bar.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was not feeling any pain and having a good time with the stress of the job being finally over. I had not eaten much today and had been drinking more than usual. J and T were both nice guys and had a real sense of humor that I enjoyed talking to. J was buying shots all evening and I told them both I was going to need help finding my room if I didn’t stop soon. They laughed and said they would make sure I got back ok and we continued drinking until the bartender cut us off.

I was pretty messed up and fumbled to find my room key. It took me a few moments to figure out the elevator call button and both J and T were standing back laughing at me. Finally they decided to assist me in walking and staying upright and helping me find my room.

J had to get my door open and they all but carried me inside and lay be across the bed.

I heard T say they better get my tie off so I didn’t strangle myself.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I was lying in the bed as both J and T began to undress me. My shoes and socks came off and then they got me out of my jacket, tie and shirt leaving me in my t-shirt and slacks. I was mumbling and said something about sleeping naked normally. I remember T asking me if I sucked cock and I mumbled back at him incoherently. My t-shirt and pants were taken off and then my boxers were pulled off leaving me fully nude on the bed.

I watched as T pulled his pants off and I just stared at his cock, it was one of the biggest I had ever seen at least in my state of mind. He surprised J and J asked him “what are you doing?” as T got fully undressed. T never answered him but crawled up on the bed and stuck his hard cock against my lips. I could not keep my mouth closed and soon T had his cock inside my mouth as I lay there reaching up and grabbing his shaft. I was horny and had my own hard on going. I did not know how to suck a guy off and was just basically mouthing him as he face fucked me. At the time I was just horny and not even thinking of what I was doing or that I was with another man. I felt a hand on my own cock and it just felt really good. T continued for about 10 minutes and then he came filling my mouth and covering my face with his cum.

I lay there stroking my own cock but unable to cum from the alcohol. It felt good but when I drink a large amount I stay hard but can’t ever finish. I looked over to see J had his pants down off his hips and was stroking his own cock in his hands. He was much smaller than T or I but was rock hard. He slowly stripped naked and moved over to the bed and began rubbing my body as he continued stroking himself. He began stroking me and his hands moved down between my cheeks and a finger pressed against my ass. I was too drunk to feel much other than the pressure.

J turned me over and put two pillows folded up under my hips leaving my ass up in the air as his finger continued to play with my hole. I felt him crawl up behind me and his cock was up against my hole as he pushed and worked himself inside me using the body lotion from the bathroom. I had a feeling of pain and fullness but enjoyed the sensations as J fucked me for at least a good ten minutes. Finally he pulled out and turned me back over onto my back and pulled me to the end of the mattress holding my legs up and placing my ankles up on his shoulders as he pushed back inside me and started to fuck me again with T cheering him on. I don’t know how long J lasted but he finally pulled out and shot a load of hot thick sticky cum all over my stomach and chest with some flying up onto my face.

T flipped me over and tried to get his cock inside my ass but was too large and never got inside me. He rubbed his cock between my ass cheeks and finally came a second time all over my back.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I don’t remember J or T leaving my room and woke up at about 2 the next afternoon. I had missed my check out and flight. I was sore from taking a cock up my ass and struggled to remember exactly what had occurred. My mind raced with thoughts of why I did this and about my sexuality. I showered and stayed that ngiht rebooking my hotel and flight for an additional night.

I later found a cell phone belonging to J inside my room. I was able to contact him finding his name in his exchange email account. I left a message at the front desk that I had his phone and for him to contact me. That evening we met in a coffee shop and I returned his phone. He said his mind was really fuzzy about what had happened and said he didn’t know T outside of having met him that evening before I came in.

J said he had never done anything with a man before and was also married. He assured me he was clean and disease free and was concerned about having unprotected sex like I was. He said he still couldn’t believe we had anal sex since he had tried with his wife for years and she always said no.

We both travel full time for work and have some of the same areas we cover. We exchanged numbers and email and agreed to get together when we are in the same city again.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Intoxication, Submission / Relinquishing power, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, I didn’t want it but was unable to stop it

How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I was too out of it / passed out / asleep and therefore unable to give consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? I’m not sure / I don’t know

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I have not ever told anyone of this encounter.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat

Why do you regret this hookup? Although J and I have been in contact and are going to see each other again at the end of February I still hate that I was totally out of control of my facilities and had unprotected sex with two total strangers.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was hot to be with another guy, I never had thought I would be but am now looking forward to exploring more with another man when I am completely sober.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Waking up not sure what you did or who it was with. Being covered above the waist in cum both front and back and having difficulty recalling who you were with.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It definitely opened up some thoughts I had never had before.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I am glad it happened but wish I had been more aware of what was happening and who I was with. Most likely if I had been more sober this would never of happened so maybe it was good that it happened the way it did.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? This is all very new to me.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It is very interesting.

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