Current location: Texas
Highest education received: High school diploma
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? About 9-ish
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
First Time with a Girl
How long ago did this hookup happen? 7 months ago
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Friends with benefits
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? J was kind of a chunky, butch lesbian type. We had met through a mutual friend and the attraction was always there from the very beginning.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We had met through a mutual friend and went to a event in town. She later helped my best friend and I get home. The following day she came over to see me and I had purposefully worn a spaghetti strap tank top *with no bra* and some short shorts. The tension was obviously there between us. Later on we started texting more and eventually I asked if she had ever thought about casually hooking up with someone before, she said no. I proceeded to ask her if she would consider becoming friends with benefits and she did not hesitate!
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We had planned to go to an arcade type of place, once we got there, we parked in the parking lot. We sat there in the car for a couple of minutes in pure silence and watched as people passed by, then she said that she was sorry for being awkward and wasn’t sure how to go about things. I decided to take control of the situation and I reached over and looked at her and said “All you have to do is kiss me…” she leaned in and at first it was peck on the lips then I pulled her in and began making out with her and eventually slide my tongue in her mouth and began massaging hers. She gave in and went kinda animalistic and started to try to pull me into her, but that was kinda hard to do granted she was in the driver seat and I was in the passenger. Before things got any steamier, she started the car and drove behind the building as she started unbuttoning my pants and slightly fingering me. We then got out of the car and moved into the back seat and we put blankets to cover the windows and we lost control. We began making out and she pulled me into her and started feeling me up my shirt. She started sucking on my nipples, then biting them. She then started moving her head down, she looked up at me and my face was flushed and I said “Go ahead.” and she proceeded to pull my pants off and my panties, my pussy was in her face and she got excited. She stuck almost 4 fingers in me and began pounding into my pussy. I started to moan super loudly. She would tease me and take them out and stick them in again. We still were making out during this time and then she lowered her head again and began sucking on it. For her first time she was fucking fantastic and that changed my perspective on hooking up with girls. I had always been bi-curious, and after it was said and done we laughed a bit and she helped me put my clothes on. We drove back to the front of the building and proceeded to go in and play in the arcade. Afterwards, she fingered me all the way till we got back to my house and that was it.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I was close to having a orgasm. I’m not sure if she did, she didn’t let me do anything but kiss her.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? One reason was curiosity. I had been bi-curious for years prior to the hookup. Another reason was because of the tension between us.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? None
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup we kept the friends with benefits thing going and we talked about things we wanted to do with each other, the topic of possibly using a dildo next time came up as well as the possibility of a sleepover. We were both okay with things.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one. For me, it’s one of my many secrets.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes it was consensual
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No I don’t regret anything about this hookup
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? How there was so much intensity, it was fucking amazing how wet she got me. The only bad thing about this hookup was having to stop. It changed my preferences a bit, I would hook up with other girls if given the chance.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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