by TL

Gender: Female
Age: 42
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Location: Brisbane, Australia
Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
Occupation: Customer Service
Relationship status: De Facto
Religious affiliation: Wiccan
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0


How long ago did this hookup happen? On going for past 8 years

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Fuck-buddies

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Tall, dark and handsome, about 17 years my senior. Total strangers first time we hooked up. Met on ICQ and exchanged phone numbers, he was single and invited me to meet him at his home. Having never done anything like this before I nervously accepted.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I had been (and still am) in a relationship with my high school sweetheart but felt something was lacking in my life. We had 2 teenaged children so I guess I was feeling a little un-needed. We arranged to meet at his urging and I complied.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I first went to his place and he immediately kissed me and squeezed my shoulders and made me feel totally relaxed. He led me to his bed and slowly, sensually continued kissing me and undressing me. He laid me down and began to worship my pussy with his tongue! I climaxed quickly with the most earthshaking orgasm I had felt in a long time! He then started fucking me in so many different positions and made me cum multiple times! When I felt I could not cum any more I sucked his so spectacularly he blew his hot load deep into my throat! Sated, we snuggled in his bed for a while recovering and chatting about our lives before round 2 of more of the same!

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? In our brief texts before meeting, he had mentioned he had had a vasectomy and was clean. I had never been with anyone else other than my partner who also has not had any other partners since we got together.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? After many years with the same man and having had 2 kids who were now grown teenagers, I wanted to explore my sexuality more and my partner was not interested in progressing our sex lives to include the possibility of swapping or threesomes.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No alcohol or drugs were involved.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt more satisfied than I had in years. Sex with my partner had become mundane and predictable. This was exciting and naughty and we have continued to see each other for lusty fuck sessions on a regular basis. He now also has a long term partner and both our partners are unaware of our secret rendezvous but as long as we are not hurting anyone we both agree we will keep going until we no longer feel like it. I feel it has actually improved my sex life with my partner.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one! It’s my and my lovers dirty little secret!

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes wanted and consensual for us both

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Finding out things about myself and experiencing things my long term partner will never want to indulge in, with someone who respects me and want to pleasure me unconditionally is probably the best thing. Nothing negative to say at all! Except that we don’t seen to be able to find as much time to hook up as we initially did.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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