Race/ethnicity: Mixed (European)
Current location: Classified
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 1
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 13 months ago
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He is a friend I met some years ago, a close friend of the family also. And he is also the biological father of my daughter (through AI/IUI).
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I knew he was going to an event and I decided to go and meet him there.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We caressed and kissed. He performed oral sex to me and then we had vaginal sex. We talked about random stuff, I can say it ended well.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? We both had orgasms.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? No precautions were used, and we discussed our STI history.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I missed my friend.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We still continue talking as we have done since we met years ago. He is still a good friend to my and my family.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? To my mother and sister, they only smiled and said “congrats”.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was consensual.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best? I enjoyed it. Worst? I don’t know. It hasn’t change my mind, I believe one must have sex with whoever you love.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? I conceived twin girls.
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