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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 45
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Scotland
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 9
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Former Colleague Text Mix Up

How long ago did this hookup happen? 8 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She is 5ft 6in, slim to med build, with brown collar-length hair, and very pert 32D’s.
We had been former work colleagues for 3 years, during which there was some very timid flirting, but also some extremely open discussion relating to our bodies and our individual sex lives with our then partners. We both felt very relaxed and comfortable in each other’s company, and there was a strong attraction but neither of us had acted upon it.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? This hook up began quite out of the blue, we hadn’t seen each other for approximately 6 months. When we worked together, we would on occasion talk openly about our sex lives. So fast forward six months and one Saturday afternoon, she was working in a bar and it was very quiet. So out of the blue, she sends me a text, saying nothing more than, “Bored at work.” I replied in my usual joking way, “What do you want me to do about it?” Her reply surprised me. She texted, “Send me a pic of you in your boxers.” Which I did, but it was a picture of me wearing boxer trunks so the head and almost every vein were visible through them. To which came the reply, “You gotta let me see it now.”  So, again I obliged and no more was heard for just over two weeks. I was just getting set to leave work when a text comes through saying, “When you get time in private call me as soon as you can.”
So I made my way out of the office and into the car and called her back.
“Where are you?” she asked so I told her. She then told me, she had been out with her friends for lunch and they were discussing ex-partners etc. and regrets of those you wish you had fucked but didn’t. To which she says, “I don’t like having regrets so come over to mine now.”

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I drove as fast as possible and I arrived outside her house with my mind already racing as to what I should expect. I look at my phone and there is a text saying the door is open, don’t knock just come in.
She was sitting in the center of the sofa and for the first time that I can ever remember, looking very shy.
No words were said, I walked across the room, and as I did she eased herself to a lying down position and I laid on top of her. We started kissing really heavily and immediately our hands were exploring each other. I remember vividly how natural her breasts were, topped off with massive hard nipples. I started sucking on them as my hands made their way inside her knickers and my face must have lit up when I felt the wetness of her anticipation of what was to come.
I pushed her hands above her head then slid my mouth down to her pussy, her clit was big, swollen and almost pulsing. I love to eat pussy and so I helped myself to the finest pussy I have ever had the pleasure of burying my face into. I wasn’t going to leave this position until she came. I sucked, licked and flicked her clit with my lips and tongue and then I put my pinky and ring finger inside her pussy. Once they were wet I lifted her slightly and let my saliva drip onto her asshole, and then shifted my pinky and ring finger into her ass and my other two fingers into her pussy. My thumb would randomly replace my tongue on her clit. After 5-6 minutes she came so hard, she said, “What a fucking great way to start”.
We moved upstairs to the bedroom, and for the first time in all the years we had known each other, she was now staring and gripping my cock in her hand. She softly eased her mouth over it and part-way down the shaft. Again, very slowly and seductively repeated this several times before moving herself into position and then lowering herself onto my cock. I laid back and watched her. Her breasts were so firm and her nipples so hard. She suddenly spun around and went into reverse cowgirl position. Her ass was so tempting so I again took my same two fingers from before and eased them into her ass. This motion drove her wild, almost as if someone had pressed a turbo boost button within her. She then changed position again turning round to face me, then she gave this really mischevious smile and lowered herself and let my cock ease into her ass.
I came so fucking hard words can’t describe.
To think I worked with her every day for three years when we could have been fucking instead, and although she was always very open when discussing sex what happened next surprised me she moved herself up over my chest and pushes the cum out of her ass, then moved herself into a position to kick it up off my chest.
This was a woman who liked to fuck and liked to try anything during sex.
The rest of the evening continued with a rotation from lying and holding each other for a while, then beginning all over again. I stayed the night and went straight back there after work on Friday.
For the following 2 years she would every now and again send the text message, “Can you help my boredom?” and another evening would be taken up. She asked to be tied face down, or hands behind her back, we fucked in the shower, on the stairs, and in the kitchen.
I once sat on the floor beneath the window eating and fingering her pussy and ass as she tried to look calm and gazing out at the cars going by.

It ended when I moved for another job, which meant a lot of time out of the country. We still meet up for drinks only, but still openly talk about sexual exploits with current partners.
She was a fantastic fuck.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We both knew this was a fuck buddy adventure as soon as it began, and there was never going to be an everlasting us. We were both driven firstly by the curiosity of fucking the person we had worked with some years ago then by the “I’d like some more of that” drive.
If she called today and said come over I’m bored, I’d be in the car and heading there as fast as can be.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? A small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? We only ever discussed it with each other and now on here.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? That it came out of the blue.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? There was no bad point relating to this hookup

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes it has made me more confident and willing to try new things

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? After having a two year regular (monthly) fuck buddy relationship, which then went to once every 3-4 months. We have no regrets and if she called tomorrow would do it again

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? People being more open to casual sex. Too much emphasis on monogamous partnerships.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I love reading the stories and have enjoyed sharing my story

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