What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 32
What’s your race/ethnicity? East Asian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? California
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 11
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 20 years old
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Sex with an ex
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was an ex that I dated for about a year and had ended the relationship close to a year prior to the encounter. He was 11 years older than I was, and very sexually experienced with a sex drive to match. Other than the initial ‘bumming’ after the break-up, there were no hard feelings.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Since we were still on good terms, we kept in touch, although infrequently. One random evening, I had to meet him to pick something up from him. He asked me to meet him at his house because it was so late in the evening. I parked and waited for him expecting to pick it up and leave, but he asked me to come inside. He joked that it had been so long that we should at least catch up. We went inside and the conversation didn’t last long.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He never turned the lights on in his bedroom and there was enough moonlight for visibility. Without any hesitation, he kissed me urgently and wrapped his large hand around my ass. While still kissing, he began moving us over to the bed. I stopped him and joked that I should have known this would happen as I laid back on the bed. He took my shorts and panties off and began nuzzling my pussy. I remember being so turned on by him inhaling so enthusiastically until he started to eat me out. And, OH MY GOD. That man is a genius with his tongue. I came so hard that my vision blacked out for a few seconds. Then, he started fingering me with one, then 2, then 3 fingers – alternating slow and deep then fast and hard. I began squirting and for a moment, I was terrified thinking that I had peed on him but he knew immediately that I was squirting. He started licking at me again and unable to take it anymore, I told him to fuck me immediately. It was frenzied sex and when he lightly put his hands around my neck, I played with my clit and I came all over again.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Laughed about it, kissed goodbye, and parted ways. I will not be seeing him again and don’t care to.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, We knew each other’s histories and were previously sexually active with each other
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was awesome sex with no strings attached. I normally am emotional about sex, but I didn’t have to worry about it with him.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
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