What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 56
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? San Antonio, Texas
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Entrepreneur
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Have Open Marriage and Have Sex with Wife and Others and by myself with others
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 35
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2

Foursome Goes Bad 1

How long ago did this hookup happen? 8 months

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My wife is 11 years younger with a killer body at 5’3″ and very attractive. The other couple was in their fifties and she was in good shape and he was too. We met online. They were from Houston and came over for the weekend. We met at a bar first and then went back to their condo.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? When we got back to the condo, we started talking and my wife and the husband went to the bedroom and the lights in the condo went out. Nothing had started between me and Mel. I wasn’t really feeling a connection and she kept drinking heavily. When the lights went out, we could hear them making out in the next room. This was a tiny space. Mel and I got up to see what was up with them and the lights came back on. My wife Michelle suggested we all get naked and we all did.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Mel started out pretty good. We made out and she was a good kisser. She went down on me and she gave an A level blow job. I went down on her and she asked me to come up and fuck her so I did. I was intent on not cumming too soon so I was pacing myself. Mel on the other hand seemed to want it over. At one point she seemed too drunk or completely disinterested. I started paying more attention to Michelle and Greg at that point, which probably didn’t help anything. I got on my back and Mel got on me and seemed to be falling asleep. She said she was fine. Greg and Michelle were next to us on the bed and Michelle was on top with her back to me. I put my finger in her asshole while she fucked Greg. Mel never looked their direction. I asked if she was okay and she said she needed to take a break and get some air. It was 20 degrees out at the time. She got up and left the room.

At that point, I watched Michelle fucking Greg and I moved to face her so she could suck my cock. She took me in her mouth and I was so charged seeing her fuck another man I came in her mouth in about a minute. She swallowed my cum while she kept fucking Greg. I watched them fuck for another ten minutes or so and had regained my erection when Mel returned to the room. She didn’t say anything and she laid down on the floor. I think she was really drunk and tired.

Mel laying there was quite the buzz kill so Michelle and Greg stopped and I put away my erection. After getting dressed, we went into the main room and Mel had passed out; fallen asleep; or deliberately stuck her head in the sand. It was time to go.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Totally weird with that couple afterwards. We had been texting for weeks. Frequently. We met and seemed to hit it off at least if that term means there was no known friction. It was after 10 by the time we made it to the condo and Mel was a super early riser for her job. There was a little texting afterwards but we weren’t that interested and it died out. Never heard from them again.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Truly educational and fun to read.

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