What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 18
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? US
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Dishwasher
What’s your current relationship status? Single
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Easygoing/Curious
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 9
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Frat Party Live Show
How long ago did this hookup happen? last weekend
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Tall, dark featured guy– a little awkward and shy. We just started dancing together at a frat party then went outside to talk a little bit and then went back to dancing. Not your typical frat boy, seemed like this was his first party.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He took me upstairs from the basement where the party was and then tried to go into another room but it was locked. We ended up going into another room that had doors on both sides, kind of a middle walkway space to get to the other rooms.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started hooking up and it was really amazing, his cock was huge and he was so vocal so it made giving him head so much fun. Then we fucked for a while but I was so drunk that I didn’t realize at the time that people were walking in and out of the room we were in and kept opening the door. I think half of the people upstairs at the frat ended up seeing up us butt-naked and having sex. But he asked my consent to choke me and it was so good! It really blew my mind. He kept complimenting me on my body and it made me feel so good and nice. Probably one of the best hookups I’ve had, but not realizing I was basically being a live porno for an entire frat house was not cool.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I walked home at 2am drunk and then when I finally got home I realized the condom was still in me. That was rough. I was just extremely wasted. I didn’t remember his name or barely what he looked like the next morning, but I remember that he liked to paint and was from Oakland. And that the sex was soo good. He found me on Instagram about a week later and asked me to hang out at around 11:30 pm on a Saturday, an obvious booty call, but I don’t think I want to see him again. I think it should stay a one night stand, even though the sex was just absolutely amazing. He seems sweet from my experience but a drunken encounter might be better as just a drunken encounter.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Intoxication, To feel more desirable, Boredom, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My roommates and my best friends. They thought it was funny that I didn’t know his name until he found me on Instagram.( I was definitely significantly more drunk than him.) One of my roommates thought I should go see him again because how good the sex was. Some of my other friends said it was definitely something to do and then never do again. I hadn’t had a one night stand like that ever so it was definitely out of character for me.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? I wish I hadn’t shown myself fucking to an entire frat. When we walked out of the room people gave me weird looks and gave him high fives. That was demeaning.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The sex! Not knowing his name, the anonymity.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Being a live porn show.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I don’t think I should do something like that again, but it was very fun and freeing to just let go for a night. It made me feel better about myself because I was definitely feeling bad about myself for a little bit before it, it made me feel sexy again.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? People should always be able to do this! It’s fun.
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