by Donna

Gender: Female
Age: 19
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: Wisconsin
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Student
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Fraternity Bunk Bed Round 1

How long ago did this hookup happen? This weekend

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? First encounter, possible fling

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? 20 years old, 6’4 ish, brown hair, slender but muscular. My friends older brother, have met him in numerous casual social situations before. Had never hooked up before, happened partly because of Tinder.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He came over to my room where we hung out with my friends for a little bit. He wanted me to go back with him to his fraternity soon after, he was clearly drunk even when he first came over. He had asked me to meet up the night before but I ignored it. This night I texted him first but he responded by calling me and coming over directly after. Was informed I’m not technically allowed in his fraternity house and that if anyone questioned me I was his girlfriend. I thought that was kind of cute.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? His bed was the bottom bunk, there was at least one and maybe two other beds in the room, each one was covered with tapestries or blankets. The bunk above us was definitely occupied, I kept hearing the most un-enthusiastic sex noises, definitely coming from a girl. It was honestly pretty bizarre. They left the room, eventually. I was on my period so as soon as we got into his bed I told him that. He told me I didn’t have to do anything I didn’t want to, which I thought was kind of cute too. He was still pretty enthusiastic about it, told me that he wanted to make me feel good. I wouldn’t let him take off my underwear, as much as I wanted to. He was pretty rough- his lip biting actually hurt for a couple of seconds but I liked it. I have a bite mark bruise on my neck still a couple of days later. I blew him and gave him a hand job, but he ended up finishing himself off as we made out and stuff. During the process he wanted to have sex, asking multiple times. I think he forgot about my period once or so, but at one point he said fuck it and he didn’t care, we should just do it anyways. I declined and he was never an ass about it at all. I think I probably gave him a few bad hickeys.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? There was no chance for me from the beginning, but he did.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I didn’t take off my underwear. He offered condoms once or twice.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I enjoy the act and feeling wanted sexually.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yes, I was pretty drunk. Can’t remember how much I drank.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? He seriously passed out within a couple of minutes. Considering he was super drunk I wasn’t concerned about it. I also think he would have expected me to stay, which wasn’t something that I wanted. I got all my stuff together and left almost right afterwards. He texted me the next morning and asked if I got home okay and said he had a good time. I honestly think thats the nicest thing any of the guys I’ve had any sort of sexual relationship with has ever done. I definitely want to have sex with him now. He lives close to me so it would be a convenient casual sex relationship, and I also give him bonus points for being polite. I’m hoping it’ll happen soon.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I have a tendency of telling what seems like a lot of people but it was probably 3 or 4 girls. They all think that I should hang out with him again

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes. He definitely initiated, though.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Nope

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I think that he was really nice about it and also I got a hint that he is probably into being rough, which I am too. The worst thing was that I was on my period so I couldn’t enjoy it fully.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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