by Cuyahoga Joe

Gender: Male
Age: 40
Relationship status: Married
How religious are you? Not at all
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Plenty
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? zero

Fraulein Of My German Springtime

How long ago did this hookup happen? 18 years ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? 2 night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? The Fraulein was a lovely, petite German girl with brown eyes and long silky darkish blonde hair. Maybe 5’2″, 105 lbs, with a lovely figure and small perky breasts.
The night we met I had never seen her before in my life.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was the spring of 1996, I was 22 years old and I was nearing the end of a post college year abroad.  
I had spent the day doing what I had done for years- wandering around and wishing I could find myself a girlfriend, but making no real effort to, you know, actually talk to a girl, because talking to girls would be scary.
Anyway, in the evening I went to some sort of party/dance/activity for exchange students at the university and left when it became boring and went home. En route, a really cute blonde stopped and asked me directions to a bar in the neighborhood. All my years of German study enabled me to give her good directions in fluent German, but a light bulb went off in my mind and I offered to walk her there.
We struck up a conversation. She wasn’t meeting friends there, she was just new in town and wanted to get out for the evening. I offered to take her back to that party/dance/activity thing for exchange students, but we got there and it  was even more boring than when I was there the first time, so she suggested we go to a club she had heard of.  
We danced, we looked into each others eyes, and then we kissed. She lived nearby and we went to her place.  She was very petite and I carried her part of the way, which she seemed to dig.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Nothing too kinky- she gave me blow jobs and we had sex four times that night. But her being petite was maybe a problem. I am really tall and maybe I was a little more frisky than she was expecting, and her moans of “ecstasy” may have been anything but ecstasy.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Condoms, yes. We did have a lengthy discussion about pregnancy and I was very clear I had never ever been pregnant even once.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? See above: horny 22 year old boy meets very pretty girl.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? A few beers. Don’t remember being even buzzed.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? FELT AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!!
We had another date and that was great. And then I went on vacation to Ireland and met another girl who I was crazy about, and I came back and ran into the Fraulein at the library and she dumped me, but the girl from Ireland came to visit a few weeks later, but that’s another story.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? The next morning I called my friend Brian and said “Hey, guess what I was doing last night? Having sex! With a girl!!!”  Brian was a good guy, he acted impressed. Brian, if you are reading this: thanks.
Some time later my old college room mate saw a snap shot I took of the Fraulein on our second “date” and asked who she was (in a tone of voice that implied she was Claudia Schiffer’s better looking sister or something). Honestly she was really dreamy.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Uh, duh.  Read above.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Regret having sex with a beautiful women when I was 22? That’s crazy talk!

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best part: EVERYTHING

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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