What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 60
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Florida
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Horny
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 100s
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Several under Avesland, One under Skinny
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How long ago did this hookup happen? Many years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Young looking male, pretty face, squanny, short, very cute. He said he was 18. Me, I was 23 at that time.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was driving a bus from airport to downtown. It was my last trip of the shift. About 11PM.
The passengers would pay when getting off.
The last stop, there was this boy still on. I asked him for the fare and he said he was broke. In cases like that, I always gave the person a free ride & not make an issue of it.
I ask where he was going and he said the Bus Depot to get to another town. He was in foster care & a ward of the state.
He had no money, they had provided him with meal vouchers, a open bus ticket & the air fare here. His last meal was on the plane many hours ago. Nothing for sleeping accommodations. The plane had been delayed considerably.
I offered to provide him with food & a bed, and would bring him back to the Bus Depot in the AM. He agreed.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Took him with me to the garage, turned the bus in and we left in my car that was parked there.
On the way, I questioned him on his life experiences.
I ask if he would have a problem with sleeping in the same bed with me. “No, slept with many before & I like to do things with guys.” He read me like a book.
I reached over & fondled him & he reciprocated back. Some kissing at the red lights.
Stopped for KFC take out.
We got to my apartment and I fed him. He took a shower & came out naked.
We made out, I blew him and then fucked him. We did not sleep at all that night. We did everything to each other. I was off the next two days & took him to the bus on the third day, ticket was still good.
The second day, a friend dropped by. He joined into the fun, wrote about him earlier.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Sorry it ended
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friend
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Pays to be generous
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Ended
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No, take advantage of opportunities as they occur.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Other than foster care, he also spent many years in state homes.
He said that it was always sex. From early ages on.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Do it all again
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Interesting
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