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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 33
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Purchasing
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? >50
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Marie lives and works for a company I make purchases from in France, mid-50s, jet black hair, short with a thin figure. She’s professional, proper and looked like a fashion model. I noticed a huge diamond ring with a wedding band but never asked about her personal life.

I work for a company that sells medical devices in the US and my job is to purchase new technology, understand and know everything about the item and create a training module for our sales department to use. My job requires travel to vendors and depending on the item, I’m typically gone a week at a time. I had been video-conference calling Marie for a few months about a new item her company was releasing for sale soon. I planned a trip to the factory and she would be my company contact.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The factory was located in a town 1 hour south of Paris. I got situated in my hotel and Marie picked me up in her car to take me to the factory. I was overwhelmed the first few days but things settled down. During the training, Marie would wear a professional dress or a skirt suit with heels. I could tell she was wearing black thigh highs and garters when she sat next to me. She caught me checking her ass out a few times. She would give me a wink and a grin.

Thursday was the final day of training & my flight departed at 4 pm Friday. On the ride back to my hotel, I asked if she knew a place I could enjoy a glass of wine with dinner and admire the local scenery. She took me to a local Bistro. My plan was to have dinner alone and try my luck with the local women but Marie asked to join me. I agreed. She also told me she would pay because this is a business related expense and her company will reimburse. I shrugged my shoulders and told her sounds good.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The wine was great so she purchased a bottle for me to take home. She was being very flirty during dinner, crossing her legs, curling her hair, looking at me with her big blue eyes, petting my hand. We arrived at my hotel so I asked if she wanted to join me for a glass of wine in my room. She gave the keys to the valet and we went inside. We were alone in the elevator and she kissed me. It wasn’t just a kiss. It was a very passionate kiss. I squeezed her little ass and it was very firm. She liked it and gave me tongue. We got in the room and we were kissing and taking off each other’s clothes. Marie’s body looked incredible! She started out sucking my cock. I loved looking at her bright red lips wrapped around my cock. It was one of the best blow jobs I ever had. She got on top and rode me till she had her first orgasm. She bent over and I took her from behind till I finished. She stayed and we had sex all night.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We had sex a few more times the next day and she drove me to the airport. I still interact with her through work and everything is very professional. I don’t have any projects that require travel to her company in the near future. I hope that changes soon.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The passionate sex. Marie was incredible with how she used her body for pleasure.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I had to leave the next day. The sex was so good I didn’t want it to end.
I wish I had tried anal but I was caught up in the moment. She had a perfectly firm ass.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No. I’ve been having casual sex with random women I meet while traveling for a long time and I don’t plan on stopping anytime soon.

I’ve been married for 10 years. My wife and I have always had an open understanding and agree not to talk about it. Our only rule is condoms are mandatory.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Marie gave me my first experience with emotional & passionate sex. The experience was like we had been having sex together for years.

My wife is an amazing woman but Marie took things to a new level I can’t even explain.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think people should experience other people.

Of all the women I’ve hooked-up over the years, half are either in a married/committed relationship vs. single. I think more people are open to the concept of having casual sex.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s a good place to share life stories.

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