What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 36
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What country and/or city do you live in? China
What’s your occupation? Manager
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How long ago did this hookup happen? 13
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She’s a petite French girl. Sexy as hell. Everyday pot smoker, too. Perfect ass and lips. Sheas my ex-girlfriend, and we were together for 2 years in Ireland before she went back to France for her postgraduate.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I moved to France about 6-8 months after she left Ireland. I was in her city and called her up. No jobs there so I was ready to move North. She invited me to her place.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I went there, and we drank wine and smoked a spliff while I helped her with some English exercises for her college.
It was getting late, so I asked her if I could sleep on the couch. She said “Of course, but you’re going to sleep with me in my bed.”
I got hard instantly, took her to her room, and started pounding her. It was heaven. Maybe because of the spliff, but I pounded her for a long time completely in control without cumming. At one point, ramming her from behind I let out a loud groan and she came all over my cock. At another point she reached for a condom and was trying to open it as I was ramming her. (She put on the condom but I took it off again because of how amazing she felt without it). Finally I pulled out and came all over her.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We fell asleep, woke up early and I caught a train to another city. Saw her again 5 years later for another story….not seen her since as I’ve left France…I know I’ll see her again though someday. She can’t resist if I call again. We make each other cum everywhere and hard.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Thought it was an important experience to have, Power / Dominance, Revenge / Getting even, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one really
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Pounding her for ages
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? No time in the morning to give her another one
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I know I can last for a long time and make women cum with just my cock
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
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