What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 47
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? UK
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Professional
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 25
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 30 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? It was freshers week at university and it was a girl in my course. She was a little shy Indian girl who had brown shoulder length hair, about 5ft 3 slim with decent breasts and a really cute ass that looked great in tight jeans. She was wearing a short mini skirt and hold ups and a T shirt with lace gloves which were all the rage then thanks to Madonna .
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We had arranged to go out as a group on a Friday night and we were all drinking doubles and we ended up in a student bar /disco. We were all dancing as a group and she was in front of me; initially it was all innocent but then she started to grind her ass on my crotch. At first I thought it was just because it was crowded so I moved back but she followed me, grinding hard, and in no time I was erect in my jeans . I grabbed her around the waist and started to grind back. It was quite dark so the grinding wasn’t apparent to anybody. I whispered in her ear if she wanted to sit down and she nodded .We made our way to a corner sat and started kissing – her tongue was very active. She was sat on my lap and my erection was pressing hard. I managed to get my hand up her shirt and onto her breasts despite her feeble protests. Her nipples became hard as I rubbed and her breathing changed; my other hand was now down the front of her skirt past the waistband of her cotton knickers and I felt some trimmed pubes . She grabbed my hand firm and said not here, so we decided to leave and go to her room. On the way we stopped in a doorway and this time I put my hand up her skirt and rubbed the front of her knickers which were now very damp. We finally made it to her room.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As we entered we met one of her flatmates so we said hello for a bit and then went into her room. I sat on the bed and she was standing in front of me so I grabbed her ass and buried my face into the crotch of her skirt. I tried to lift her skirt but she kept stopping me and saying she wanted to switch the light off since she was shy. By now we were both quite drunk so we started to undress each other; we were down to our underwear and she kept her lace gloves on. I eventually took her bra off and she covered her breasts with her hands, but I laid her back and started to kiss and lick her nipples and she started moaning quietly. At the same time I was rubbing her pussy through her now wet knickers; her legs started to spread as her breathing quickened. She was now quietly panting and clamped her thighs together as she came. I kneeled over her and pulled my briefs off, my cock bobbing rock hard in front of her face. I took her gloved hand and wrapped it around and started to stroke my cock, telling her to kiss but she said she had never done that before so I just placed my cock on her lips and she had a taste. I told her to suck it and she protested, but her mouth opened and I was in. She sucked the best she could and then said she wanted to fuck; however we had no condoms and there was no way I was going to risk getting her pregnant. I slid down her body and started to lick the front of her panties, pulling them to one side and then I ate her pussy until she came again. I still needed to come so I made her wank me with her lace gloves till I shot all over her tits. We both fell into a drunken sleep – me with my face in her tits and her still-laced hand holding my cock. I woke in the morning with my cock hard as steel; she was asleep. I maneuvered her so we were in a 69 position and started to eat her pussy while pushing my cock into her mouth. Again she came, but I kept licking and then I could feel my cum building and erupted in her mouth. She swallowed some and gagged a bit as we both lay there spent. She said she wished that I had fucked her but I said not without a condom because of the risk of pregnancy.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I walked back to my room and just thinking about what had happened; I was hard so I masturbated again and fell asleep . The next night I bumped into her in the bar and I said that I was going to fuck her tonight; she said no and walked off. About midnight I went to her room with condoms and she said she didn’t want to. We started kissing and soon my hands were in her knickers fingering her wet pussy. She came on my fingers and dropped to her knees to suck my cock, I pulled her up and lay her on the bed and spread her legs and then I took a condom and rolled it onto my cock so that I could fuck her. She said she was a virgin and I said I would go slowly, so I bent down and started to eat her pussy until she was dripping. Slowly but surely I put my cock in the until she felt my balls against her ass with her hand and said fuck me. We started to fuck slowly and fast. Her pussy was so tight I didn’t last long and came deep inside her and withdrew. The condom was full. We fell asleep and I fucked her again doggystyle, pulling her hair and fingering her ass again in the morning .We had oral sex in 69 with me unloading in her mouth and her coming again before we parted ways .
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Intoxication
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The best thing was although she was pretending to be shy, she was really dirty and once she got the taste of cock and cum she couldn’t get enough .
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not having condoms on the first night.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It’s given me a panty fetish to this day; I love licking pussy through knickers and rubbing wet knickers over pussy.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex has played an important part of my life
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Fantastic to share your experiences.
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