by AD

Gender: Female
Age: 18
Race/ethnicity: Indian
Current location: New Delhi
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Occupation: Student
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Friendly Encounter

How long ago did this hookup happen? One month back

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One-night stand (we made out twice before sex)

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My partner was average looking but he had a very deep and attractive voice. Also, he has a very confident personality which I found somewhat attractive. He is my best friend’s best friend so we are close and I have known him for three years. We met up on an almost daily basis to chill and smoke. He was also in my social circle so we went out with friends to drink quite often. I was always attracted to him a little bit but not enough to fuck him. Also, we shared a best friend so I didn’t want to make things awkward.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We never had the sort of chemistry where I could think about hooking up with him. I mean I was attracted to him but I did not realize it until I hooked up with him.
We were returning from our best friend’s birthday party one night and we were both pretty drunk. He offered to drop me home because I was buzzed as hell. We were on the elevator and he hugged me and it felt nice and suddenly my floor came so we got out. We started looking at the stars and were hugging and kissing each other around the neck. It was corny but I guess since we were both buzzed it felt nice. Suddenly, he pushed me towards the wall and we started making out. It was pretty good because I got turned on. He kissed me everywhere and took off my bra. We did not go further and I went back home. We thought it would be best if we didn’t tell anyone since we had a lot of mutual friends then it is just awkward. I sort of blurted it out to my other friend and she told him and he got annoyed because he thought we made a pact. It got a bit awkward but we got over it. Six months later we made out again and only went till oral. This time I did not tell anyone because now it didn’t feel like a big deal. 
Two days after that we were drinking at his place with our mutual best friend and he had to leave suddenly. We both were alone and drunk again so we started making out passionately and ultimately he fucked me.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I was comfortable because we had made out in different occasions before actually having sex. I gave him a blowjob and he went down on me. The sex was alright but we were pretty drunk to make it special. Therefore, it was a bit clumsy and I wished I was a bit sober to take control. However, I had an orgasm when he started fingering me. We didn’t fuck for more than thirty minutes as it was getting pretty late and I had to get home. We shared a cigarette after the sex and mutually agreed that it would be best to not let any of this happen again because we were both only physically attracted to each other. He had a thing for another girl and I wanted to date a nice boy. I guess I can never see him as a boyfriend material because we chill so much. Like he has literally made a booty call to another chick in front of me before all this had started.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? It was totally impulsive and sudden therefore we didn’t use a condom. None of us has any STI’s we know that about each other. There was no penetration but we should have still used a condom. I was relieved when I got my period two weeks later.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was attracted to him, whenever I made out with him we always stopped midway which made me want to have him more, I am young and we are all separating for college so I guess it was my way of saying goodbye.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? We both had a lot of white rum before we had sex. There were no drugs involved.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Well we weren’t too close after having sex because then he went for a holiday and then he left for college. Even I am leaving for college next month so I don’t know if we will ever meet again. Regardless of all the shit that happened between us, I would always remember him as a good buddy and a fun person to hang around with.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Eventually, I told our mutual best friend about the hookup. He always thought there was something up so he wasn’t surprised I guess. He joked about it a bit which was a relief.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? We both wanted to do it.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I don’t regret the hookup. I just don’t want to be his random encounter but an actual friend in future. But that would be impossible given the distance I guess.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best thing was probably the comfort and the fact that we were friends and I trusted him. Before this, my hookups have generally been pretty random. It’s bad that I might lose him as a friend though I am not sure.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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