by Red and Gray
What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? Mid 40’s
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Manager
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30-40
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
Friend’s Daughter Is An Escort
How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Paid sex
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I knew her and her family for almost 8 years. They’re of Asian descent, and everyone in the family is incredibly good looking. I first met her when she was quite young and had no doubts she would grow up to be gorgeous. Nothing inappropriate ever happened between us then. Quite frankly, I was more interested in trying to convince my wife to seduce the mother, but that never really happened even though they came close.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We had moved away, and I had come back to the area on business and decided to call an escort. After looking at ads for a couple of days, I decided to set an appointment with a 21-year-old Asian girl. We arranged all the details over text, and I got cleaned up and waited at my hotel for her to arrive a couple of hours later.
When the knock on the door came, I was excited and really nervous. Normally, I always scope things out through the peephole first, but I neglected to this time. To say there was a moment of confusion when I opened the door and we recognized each other would be a massive understatement. My heart lept into my throat, I got a little light headed, and I also got incredibly aroused. After a moment of staring at each other, dumbfounded, I finally came to my senses enough to say that she had better come in so we could talk about this.
I offered her a drink, as I could tell we both needed one, and talked about how incredibly strange this was. I explained how the relationship worked with my wife; she has other partners (mostly women) and that I occasionally meet up with women when I travel for work. She explained that she had only been doing escort work for a little while to pay some bills while in school.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We talked for quite a while and had several more drinks, and I told her that if this was too weird I would totally understand and she could have the money that was agreed to. After a momentary pause to watch for a look of relief on her face, that never appeared, I added “or this could be our little secret”. She stood up, finished her drink, and started walking towards the door but turned and went into the bathroom. I figured she was leaving and was filled with conflicting amounts of relief and disappointment. But a couple of minutes later, she emerged wearing only her bra and panties and there was no misinterpreting her decision.
We kissed, and at first, it was slightly awkward, but that quickly melted away. She has a truly remarkable body from a lifetime of gymnastics and dance, and I could not get enough of her.
She ended up staying several hours, and we had sex multiple times (let me take a moment to thank those little blue pills that allowed this to happen). We spent lots of time touching, talking, and laughing when not pleasuring each other.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We had a long kiss at the door as she was leaving and discussed getting together again the next time I came to town, but she is out of the business now and is in a very serious relationship. She’s still a friend, and there isn’t any weirdness between us. I normally tell my wife about the girls and couples I meet while traveling, but my friend and I decided this encounter was a little too close to home and she couldn’t risk her parents finding out.
Would love to get together with her again but time will tell.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant, Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Never told anyone.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I was expecting to fulfill a carnal need for sex with an anonymous beautiful girl but ended up becoming closer with a friend and having a completely satisfying and loving experience.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That it was only one night.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? A little.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I crave casual sex with strangers for the physical rush. I had assumed sex with friends would end up being weird and uncomfortable, but it ended up creating a wonderful bond and deepened the friendship.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it!
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