What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Hindu
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? no
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Friend’s Elder Sister

How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months before

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She is my best friend’s elder sister. She is so cute and little chubby. I know her from my school days. I always go to my friend’s house. I feel her like my sister before hook-ups.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Her name is Sara. She had broken up with his boyfriend. She so stressed that time. Once she had seen me shirtless in my friend’s house. She messaged me after 2 days. We talked normally. Then she shared all about her bf and breakup. And she started praising on my body. I like that. I also praised her. So by this, we started flirting. And then convocation got started more naughty.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We are at my friend’s house. My friend wanted to go to pick up his mom from the railway station. So he said me to play games he will come in an hour or two. While playing, Sara chatted with me. We started flirting. She told me that she wanna look my packs again. But I denied and said why should I? With a joke, I said ladies first. She starts laughing and said she was ok. I shocked and again jokingly said then do it. She removed her top. I was amazed as I watched her in her bra. Also, I removed my shirt. This all ended with a great sex.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Didn’t want to disappoint my partner

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? I’m not sure / I don’t know

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? We kept it secret

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Other

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? We both were satisfied. We are now good and close friends also. We share everything with each other.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes… Its is always nice to get refresh

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It is not bad to help or to enjoy with while we like.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Nothing

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