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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 29
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Usa
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Manager
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She is 5’5″, jet black hair, petite frame with a great ass and a cups. Known her for almost 10 years. Never hooked up with her before. Met her for drinks and pool. Somewhat guilty

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Started playing pool and drinking at a bar next to my house. We started betting on shots and she ran out of money. She then said if I won the next game she would give me a massage and if she won she’d win back all her money. She ended up losing and we left. We left and went back to my place. We drank some more and said she wanted to give me the massage she owed me. We went to my bed and she gave me a great massage and asked if she could have one. I said yes and she took off her clothes all except her bra and panties and laid down. I massaged her and she said her bra was in the way and took it off. I continued massaging when she rolled over and wanted me to massage her front. As I was I felt her hands undoing my belt.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Hands down the best sex I’ve ever had. She started by giving me head and I returned the favor. I then mounted her in missionary and man was her puss tight. She switched to doggie and I pounded it. She was in absolute lust the whole time. I asked when she last had sex and she said her bf didn’t want to until they were married. She asked if I wanted to try anal with her. I was able to use her juices as she was so wet for lube and pushed into her ass. It was one of the best feelings ever. She had me pull out and wanted to ride me in her puss again. I don’t know what angle she had but it felt so damn good. She came several times throughout and I was about to cum. She rode me until I did and then got off and stroked it. After I had finished Cumming she started to suck me and ended up getting me off a second time within 10 minutes. We hooked up several more times before she broke it off with her bf and wanted to date me but I didn’t want to. We didn’t talk for quite and while and now she is back with him and they are engaged. She still contacts me and wants to hookup which I’ve stayed away from but damn it’s hard.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Didn’t really talk much. She felt a little guilty but we kept having sex for about a month before it ended. I’d love to bang her again but now she’s engaged to the same guy and I don’t want to ruin it again.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Intoxication

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I never told anyone

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? It broke up her and her bf

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? She was amazing in bed

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Buddy’s gf

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, I was against casual sex until this happened

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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