Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Friends With Benefits
How long ago did this hookup happen? A year
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She’s a pretty and hot woman for me. We know each other since we started university and we hooked up twice before but we just play sex games non penetration or oral sex. Every time we are alone hiding from other friends we kissed each other and touched each other’s bodies.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The first time was in a hotel where we were staying for some school lectures in Monterrey, México. It wasn’t planned because we were laying together in a bed next to our friends while they were sleeping and it began as just kissing then we finished masturbating each other.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I just tried to seduce her with kisses and sucking her nipples and she started to touch my genitals under my pants. I felt so good because I ejaculated while I was fingering her vagina but we couldn’t make noise because our friends were sleeping in the same hotel room.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? It was no penetration just masturbating our genitals and kissing.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? We were in a bed sleeping together and kissing comes another more intimate things.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? We were sober.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We felt good because it was an adventure we’ve never experienced. I think we both enjoyed it because we repeated it several times after that.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? We never talk to anybody about that
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Consensual
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No we don’t
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It wasn’t a bad experience because was enjoyable for us both. After that I think casual sex is good for sexual abilities just if it’s a consensual encounter.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive