by Laceylee

Gender: Female
Age: 20
Race/ethnicity: Italian Decent
Current location: Australia
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Student
Relationship status: In a relationship
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? No
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 25ish
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Friends With Very Fun Benefits

How long ago did this hookup happen? 14 months ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Fuck buddies/friends with benefits

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He is 6ft 2 with a lot of muscle. He has a rough beard and semi curly brown hair.
Best friends since 2007 when we started high school together. Dated for a couple of months in 2008 then we broke up and he started dating the devil. We had never gone further than kissing, we were only kids! He was my best friend even though we hadn’t spoken for a while.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? When we we started talking again it was us joking around saying that we were going to teach each other some secrets about sex. I had slept with a lot more people than him seeing as he had only slept with his ex and another one night stand. He was my best friend and I was rather stoned and horny. I instigated it.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It wasn’t awkward like I expected it to be. It was incredibly natural which was surprising. I was shocked at how big he was. Not only was he long but man he was thick!
We participated in mutual oral. He has skills down there! Then we went straight to sex. That blew my mind! I came in the first few minutes! It felt incredible!
He was very loving and affectionate. I expected him to be more distant and nonchalant about it all but he was the opposite. He texted me after he dropped me home and we spoke for the rest of the night.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I sure did and he came everywhere.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Nothing

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? More or less cause I was bored and horny.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? I was incredibly stoned my female best friend’s partner had died a week before and all she did to cope was smoke pot so in turn I did too. He was completely sober.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We have been together a year now. It feels strange to look back. He changed me for the better. I stopped smoking pot and regular cigarettes. I am working on losing weight. I am back at University and I have a job and car.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my best female friend at the time. After 14 years of friendship she stopped talking to me. My mum was pleased that we were together again because she always liked him.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It certainly was

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No way! It made me realise how much I love him and have always loved him.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It made me realise that I was a bit slutty and had way too much casual sex.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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