What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 24
What’s your race/ethnicity? Malay
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Singapore
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Muslim
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Friendship sex

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? This chinese girl was a friend back in school. Close friend. Felt she was cute and always had a crush on her. She was petite which made her cuter

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? During a staycation with the group, everyone was playing cards in the hall and I was in the bathtub behind the shower curtains and it suddenly came open and there she was, naked. She didn’t know i was in the bathroom. She asked if she should leave, but i said its okay since we’re friends for so long. And she joined be in the bath tub, facing each other

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started talking about stuff the group will be doing the next morning but unknowingly, i started having an erection. After all, she was amazingly sexy. She suddenly repositioned herself, leaning on my chest and her hand grasped my penis (which was when i realised it was standing) and she said to me “your dick tells me you find me sexy”. We started kissing while she stroked my penis and I fondled her breasts. She then cowgirl positioned herself above me and slowly came down, my penis slowly penetrating her. After some time, i told her i was about to ejaculate. Her only reply was “i know” and we continued having sex until i came inside her. And we continued having sex.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? When the sex ended, she sat on me with my penis still inside her and we continued our conversation about our plans for the staycation. We stayed like that for about an hour before showering together and joining the rest of the group. We continued having bathtub sex for the remaining of the staycation. In addition to that, we also will have sex in the middle of the night while the other girl (our group has 3 guys and two girls) was fast asleep on the same bed. We continued having sex after the staycation too. We kept our sex relationship adventurous, having sex at different locations such as school, the beach and on other staycations. But we agreed to stay as long time friends, as well as promised to make it an obligation to have sex when the other person wants it. All through out, i came inside her as she wants me to. We only had each other as sex partners.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Thought it was an important experience to have, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? We told no one.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Sex with someone i find cute since i was 14. It was safe as we only had sex with each other (she is trustworthy). Sex whenever i want, i just need to call.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Since we promised to make it an obligation, i need to have sex with her even when i’m tired.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Casual sex is okay as long as both parties are adult about it. Make sure ground rules are set

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Despite the frequency of the sex, we still find our sex is terrific and we love having sexwith each other

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