Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Occupation: Social Media Manager
Sexual orientation: Gay
How many hookup stories have you here posted before: 0
How would you best classify this hookup: Friends with benefits
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Beautiful eyes with fit body.
We met through a gay dating website. We clicked right away. I met him at his flat. Didn’t have any expectations so I was beyond shocked -in a good way- how the date turned out.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It started online and ended on his bed. We became good friends. Never lovers although the sex was great. He sent me a message online that he is interested to meet and I was adventurous and daring at that time.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? A lot of kissing and touching. It was oral sex and the best I ever had. I felt like I was the centre of the universe. We both did have orgasm. I definitely ticked his boxes and he ticked mine too.
I enjoy casual sex but I prefer to be in a relationship. So when I’m single we do have our great sex and if I’m back dating we switch to friends only.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We never did discuss that. We kept our sexual relation safe. I’m very lucky that I didn’t get any STIs. It is something I did with my current partner.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Sex
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? There were no plans or expectations. For me it was an experience that I wanted to enjoy.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? To my best friend. I guess he was happy for me. I don’t really remember.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing is each on of us knew the G spot of the other one.
I don’t know if this the worst but we never had anal sex.
Definitely. I’m much better in sex. I became more relaxed about my sexual desires.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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