by CS

Gender: Male
Age: 36
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: South Africa
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Relationship status: Married
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 11
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Fuck Buddies Turned Affair

How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Affair

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Very good friend of mine.  She’s much younger, she’s 24 I’m 36. Met her and husband at social gathering. She’s very sexy, young mom, long brown dyed hair and great body, 36D boobs with the most beautiful big mouth!

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? She commented via text on how sexy my ass is and I returned text telling her that she has the most beautiful kissable mouth.  She asked whether she can touch my ass sometime and I said, yes but only if I can get a “real” kiss from her.  The deal was on so I drove to her house…

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? On the way to her house, she text and said the side door of the house is open.  Arrived and went straight into the house.  She was waiting for me in the lounge.  Said our “hellos” and then I said:  ok wanna touch my ass now?  She immediately began touching my ass then we started kissing and making out on the couch.  We quickly stripped, I went down on her and then had a quickie!  I didn’t have any condoms with me and she asked me not to cum inside her.

Thereafter we met several times, at my office, in my car, at my place when my wife wasn’t around.

One night I was alone at home, she came to visit.  Had a whole night of sex, every position thinkable.  We counted her orgasms and she had 10 that night, think I had about 4 orgasms.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes plenty orgasms!

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Condoms initially thereafter she was safe.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Sexual attraction

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Alcohol sometimes

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The affair lasted 3 months.  She couldn’t live without me anymore and wanted to divorce her husband and asked me to divorce my wife.  She wanted to marry me, but we just couldn’t do it for the kids’ sake in the end.

We don’t see each other anymore but I still have “feelings” for her!  I can’t work out though.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Only her best friend knows.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Consensual

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Initially no, but today yes!  We’re no longer friends anymore.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Great long lasting sex and the great feeling of an affair.  Had great sexual encounters, every position thinkable.  Would still love to have sex with her if I could today.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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