What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 46
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? England, Chelmsford
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Buyer for a supermarket
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 60-70
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Fuck-Buddy First Time

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I worked with him for about three years, he was in his early fifties but had always looked after himself and his body would put most men half his age to shame, good looking but had a moustache which I have never liked on men, I always fancied him as did most of the women in the office but he was happily married and I had been told by others he wouldn’t stray so I never made a move on him

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were having drinks in a local pub because of a birthday in the office, no planning was involved I sat on a sofa in the pub after having had a few too many vodkas and he came and sat next to me and started talking, the talk turned to sex (as it often does with me as it’s never far from my mind) and I mentioned I was good at blowjobs and could deepthroat, at this point he mentioned he missed oral sex as his wife refused to do it so I asked him how long it had been and he said 20 years so I said that’s far too long to go without oral sex and because of the drink and the fact I fancied him I asked him if he wanted a blowjob to remember what it was like fully expecting him to laugh it off and say something about being happily married but to my surprise he looked at me and said yes, I looked back at him and realised he was serious so I said ok come on then, the office was nearby so we told everyone I had left something in the office and he was coming back with me to make sure I was ok so we left and went to the office.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went into my office and he turned around and leant on my desk, I got on my knees in front of him unbuckled his belt undid his trousers and in one movement pulled his trousers and shorts down, his cock sprang up level with my mouth well on its way to a full hard on, his cock was a nice length but I was more impressed by its girth which was and still is the biggest I had known and his very big balls which hung nicely between his legs, I reached up and took his cock with my right hand and started to wank him while gently caressing his balls with my left. I then opened my mouth and leaned forward onto his cock, he groaned as I slid my mouth up and down his shaft and I was very surprised when he said he had wanted to see his cock in my mouth from the moment he had met me but I never let it interrupt me and carried on blowing him. In the past, I have throated a nine inch cock all the way to his balls but all I could get in my mouth of his was about 5 inches it was just too fat to get down my throat so I used my hand and mouth until he put his hand on my head and tried to push me off as he said I’m cumming, I moved his hand keeping his cock in my mouth and speeded up with my hand movements, he got the idea and leaned back and said here it comes, I caressed his balls as he pumped squirt after squirt of cum into my mouth I swallowed it down as he came loving the feel of his cock pulsing with every squirt until he had finished and I let his cock slip from my mouth, I stood up and he said that was unbelievable and he had missed that more than he knew as he had never been with another woman since meeting his wife I had enjoyed the amount he came so much I said I was happy to make it a regular thing if he wanted and he agreed, he got dressed and we returned to the pub.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next morning I felt great about it and wanted to feel him cumming in my mouth again and was hoping he would return the favor and at some point fuck me, which has happened many times now usually in my office with the door locked and I fancy him more than ever

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Intoxication, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one. It’s top secret

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? the amount he came, never had a guy cum so much in my life

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? He didn’t fuck me

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? nope

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I have had quite a lot of casual sex in my life but prefer fuck buddies I have a lot of sexual partners married/single/relationship that I can call on to satisfy my desires

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? enjoying the stories

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