by Just a guy
What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 32
What country and/or city do you live in? Montreal
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 8
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? Three weeks
What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? “Tanya” is the younger sister of one of my female friends. 28-years-old, petite, about 160 cm (just under 5 foot 3) and slim. I like her because she is very attractive, super smart (I love smart women), works as a management consultant, and very slim. I got a hard on the first time I saw her in her skirt and heels after work. She has a problem keeping boyfriends, which I couldn’t believe. One night I was having dinner with my friend’s and Tanya’s family. Tanya’s dad was putting Tanya down about her new hair style and about how skinny and anorexic she looked. He said even he wouldn’t date her. I could tell Tanya was hurt. I texted Tanya with a message saying, Hey, I’d date you. When she saw it, she looked up at me and smiled. We flirted back and forth by text, to the point where I was telling her that I like her sexy legs. This led to our first date a week later. Sure she was my friend’s younger sister, and who knows how my friend would feel, but I was really interested in Tanya.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After that first date, Tanya and I have been casually dating and having sex for the last month. We see each other once or twice a week. As I got to know her, I began to see how selfish she is. All she cares about is herself. She also claims to know everything. She’s always telling me how things are, and says I am wrong about things and explains how it is to me. It’s very annoying. Because I like her smartness and she looks so attractive and sexy to me, I’m still dating her, and I really enjoy having sex with her.
Last week we had a particularly long argument about some stuff, with her lecturing me nonstop. I was particularly put off, but she doesn’t see how this gets under people’s skin, including me.
She’s so clued out that right after that “debate”, she started kissing me and indicating that she wanted to go to her bedroom to have sex. That turned me on, but I was still angry at her. I felt like giving her a good hard fuck to put her in her place.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As soon as we got to her bedroom, I ripped off her jeans and threw her on her bed. I started with oral sex, but I could see that she was already very wet. I also had a very strong erection at this point. So I just ripped off the rest of her clothes, pushed her onto the bed, pulled her legs apart to spread open her pussy, and penetrated her with hardly any foreplay. It was also the first time we did this without a condom. As she pulled her legs up, I grabbed the back of her knees to push her legs above her head, and began pounding my cock into her aggressively. She didn’t seem to object to my forcefulness. In fact, she was moaning more than I had ever heard. Normally, I would be so turned on, I would probably orgasm, but I was so pissed off with her and just wanting to dominate her that I just wanted to jack hammer into her as hard as I could and make her feel it. When I was exhausted from that position, I flipped her on her hands and knees, grabbed her hips and penetrated her doggy style. I pounded into her as fast and as forceful as I could, then started slapping her butt. When she rested on her elbows and head, I started pulling on her hair too. She was moaning load and nonstop. I just kept fucking her harder until I shot my load into her. I was covered in sweat at the end of it.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She said it was the best sex she had ever had so far. Strangely, I also felt it was awesome. I had never fucked with such vigor and strength before in my life. She wanted me to sleep over, which I never did before. Since it was late, I did sleep over. The next morning, we fucked again. This time, she rode me. Again, we did not use any protection.
She asked me later where this is going. She seems to want a relationship. I do too if it was just about her looks and her smartness, but I can’t stand her selfishness and know-it-all attitude.
Her selfishness is a sexual turn on for me. If she’s enjoying the sex I am giving her, it is an ego boost for me. And fucking her out of anger is also strangely enjoyable.
My last girlfriend was very quiet. I never knew what she was thinking. With Tanya, it’s refreshing to know what’s on her mind and how she feels, even if its all about her.
But honestly, I can’t see how I can bear to put up with this personality nonstop. Now I can see why she can’t keep any boyfriends. I want to stay, and the sex is mind blowing, but I don’t know. I’m just going along for now, but haven’t given her any commitments.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Attraction to partner(s), Power / Dominance
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I learned to fuck aggressively and I learned that I enjoy fucking aggressively.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I don’t know where this is going. I wish she was an easier person to get along with.
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