by C

Gender: Male
Age: 28
Race/ethnicity: Asian
Current location: Los Angeles
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Occupation: Self
Relationship status: In a relationship
Religious affiliation: Buddhist
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 12+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Fucked a Television Host My Friend Wanted To Marry

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2013

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Short fling
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Anita was cute, rich, slim, magazine model and television host in China, she had long black hair and a great fashion style.  I only knew her because she was traveling to America and my friend, who knew her asked me to take her out for a dinner so he seemed “cool and international” I was going into this blind not knowing at what she looked like but I asked him if he was pursuing her and he said no (I don’t usually like to ruin friendships so I like to ask my friends first).  I picked Anita up at her hotel assuming the worst that she would be ugly but when she opened the door she looked extremely cute.  Glasses, short shorts, sneakers and a t-shirt.  Something a typical entertainment industry person would wear on vacation.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? So we went to dinner, had mexican food, in Santa Monica we flirted back and forth a little bit, sporadically held hands, played pool, flirted some more.  I wanted to take her to the nightclub but it was too late so I took her to the beach, we were very cute together playing in the water under the moonlight, dancing, what not.  I kissed her that night and she asked me to go with her to her next stop, San Diego.  I really wanted her that night and I think if I was a little more aggressive it might’ve happened but I didn’t push it.  We ended up in San Diego the next day and had a lot of fun.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The first night of our hotel stay I tried to be a gentleman and slept on the couch of her room.  The next morning I climbed on her bed and we started fondling each other.  One thing led to another and we started kissing, eventually we got my underwear and her panties off lightning fast and we just started going at it like animals.  She started off on top of me, then I flipped her around and took her from behind, changed positions and threw her on the bed pushing her legs on her chest and just pounding her.  She said she needed to go to the bathroom and I picked her up to take her there but ended up throwing her on the couch and taking her there too.  We had a lot of fun.  She did not give me oral and to be honest I don’t remember if I ate her out or not.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I didn’t orgasm or cum because I didn’t want to, I’m not sure if she came I think she did.  She did ask me afterwards why I didnt’ cum and I told her I didn’t want to.  I think I might’ve been saving it for future use on her.  I would’ve like to cum in her mouth though, sort of regret not doing that.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Nope, didn’t ask, didn’t use condoms.  I seem to have luck with clean women.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I think there was some level of attraction but it wasn’t insanely magnetizing.  We liked each other, enjoyed each others’ company.  I think we were probably just both horny.  Men are always horny.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Not at all

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Things were normal, we continued on our little getaway to San Diego as planned.  Had sex a few other times, took some showers together.  When she flew to another city,  I was pretty sad because I really liked her she was extremely pissed that I accidentally butt dialed her while having dinner with another friend who I casually slept with the next day because I was missing Anita (thats another FwB story) Eventually she had to go back home and we talked about possibly having a relationship, everything was going fine and I was planning a trip to see her in China that she encouraged but one day she suddenly stopped talking to me.  It was weird but I learned to live with it.  I guess looking back I lost a good friend because I pursued her and I would’ve prefered to keep her in my life as a friend than lose her completely.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Told my business partner didn’t go into details.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes we both wanted it, I’m curious at what point did she want me but I never got to ask.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not at all.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Got to get away for a little and visit another city and hit up a few attractions I’ve either never been to or haven’t visited for a long time.  Got to spend time with a good person and it definitely helped that she was hot.  It was probably more casual for her than me.  Yes it got me more into the mood of hooking up with girls. I really stepped up my game after this.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? After she got home, she said her hip was extremely sore from the sex and had to get acupuncture and massages.  She definitely wanted more though.  Too bad we couldn’t make it happen.

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