Current location: Norway
Highest education received: High school diploma
Relationship status: In an open relationship for 1,5 years
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 18
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Fucked and Facefucked In Elevator-Room
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 months
How would you best classify this hookup? One night stand
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a musician as well, from Australia, but living in Berlin. We met when we played at the same gig. He was about my height (172cm), fit, lean, and very handsome with short hair and kind eyes. We first met at the sound checks and hung around at each others performances. He was handsome, but also very talented and passionate about his work – this was a big turn on as well. I was very attracted to him!
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After the concerts most of the artists went to an underground club and I followed together with my bandmate. He and his two friends and us formed a small group and had a few beers and talked. He had this electric karma and was very kind and confident, so I was excited when the two of us could have a private talk. We talked about art and shared the same taste and passion. I was so into him, and I guess it must have been quite obvious, because all of a sudden he started kissing me. I immediately thought about my boyfriend back in Bergen, but we had agreed that we should have an open relationship, so I let myself get carried away.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We kissed for a long time at the bar and he caressed my breasts and I let my hands run all over his body. I was so horny now, and together we found a tiny space which I think was the elevator machine room. Once inside he fingered me while standing up, and it was so good. I was wearing a jumpsuit and he took it partly of so I was naked from the waist and up. He kissed my breasts, and after that I gave him a really wet and deep blowjob. He had a big, hard dick ( a little bigger than my boyfriend ) and it was beautiful to look at and wet with precum. I really enjoyed blowing him, and I could see that he was impressed and that he really enjoyed it. We didn`t finish as we thought someone was coming, and got dressed and went back to the others. It was quite obvious to them, or at least to my mate, what had gone on, and we all smiled shyly. We talked some more, had another beer and I whispered in his ear that I really wanted him to fuck me. We went back to the same place and the space was so tiny it was almost impossible to get undresses, let alone have sex. I took of my jumpsuit, and the situation with me naked in front of him – fully clothed, in the dirty elevator room turned me even more on. We went straight for the fucking, and he forced me to turn around and bend over some crates so he could fuck me from behind. I was so wet that he didn`t have any trouble penetrating me and he started out gently, but soon enough he was fucking me really hard while holding my hips. He then pulled my short hair and made me stand up so that he could play with my breasts from behind. He then moved his hands towards my neck and did some choking, and I could feel that he was about to come. At this point I didn`t know he was wearing a condom so I told him that I wanted him to come in my mouth, because I didn`t want his cum inside me. I then got down on my knees and sucked his cock porn-star-style and even made him really fuck my face to the point where I was gagging. I actually enjoy this, and I touched myself at the same time while I sensed that he was about to come. I took him really deep and when he was about to come he held my head and came all the way back in my throath. I gagged, but swallowed every drop and had his dick in my mouth while I made myself orgasm. Then I got dressed before we hugged for a long time before we went out in the club.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes and yes!
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? He wore a condom when he fucked me.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? He was attractive and I was horny. This is my first open relationship, and he was the first one that I had sex with without my boyfriend being involved or knowing. That was exciting and it felt good to get some sexual confirmation from someone else
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? A few beers.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Felt great! Was a bit nervous how my boyfriend would feel, but he was so happy for me. I sent my ONS a short FB-message afterwards and he replied. Maybe I`ll try and get in touch if I`m going back to Berlin?
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My bandmate – she thought it was cool but initially she didn`t know that me and my boyfriend were having an open relationship.
My boyfriend – he was surprised, but so happy for me. He said I was glowing when I got of the plane. He also said that he loved my fling in Berlin for making me happy. We actually wrote this to him together when we were on MDMA the following weekend, which of course was stupid and a bit awkward after 🙂
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes and yes!
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No!
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The sex was great, but for me the big revelation was that I could have this great experience while in a realtionship, without feeling guilt and in a way that was positive for me, for our relationship and my boyfriend. We had talked about having an open relationship, but I was a bit ambivalent and hadn´t met anyone until this point that I was tempted by.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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