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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 32
What’s your race/ethnicity? Middle Eastern
What country and/or city do you live in? London
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Muslim
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Fucking A Stranger In Need Of A Place To Stay

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I guess the woman was about my age, in her late 20s or early 30s. Not really sure. She was white, squat, shoulder length wavy dirty blond hair, big breasts, chubby, big arse. Not exactly a beauty competition winner.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? This is a really strange story. I was walking home to my apartment one cold autumn night. I was coming home from a party, so I was drunk, but still in control of myself.

This woman approached me and told me she felt cold. It was obvious that she was intoxicated, I wasn’t sure whether she was only drunk or also on other drugs. At first, I wanted to ignore her, but she kept following me with a swathe of confused gibberish. I understood that she was from another city, was lost, didn’t have a place to stay. She repeatedly said I could fuck her if I would only take her to a warm place where she could sleep.

I took pity on her as I wouldn’t want to sleep in the streets of London, especially not in a cold night. I felt bad about just leaving her to her fate. I realised that there was not much of interest for her to steal from me in my apartment, so I agreed to let her stay with me overnight. The woman repeated her gratitude and that she would let me fuck her, but I just ignored that part as we were walking to my place. I could tell that the woman wasn’t in command of herself, and I didn’t want to take advantage of her. I just let her blabber on and was happy when we got to my place.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I have a sofa in my small apartment, so I told her to lie down there while I would sleep in my bed. Again, I ignored her offer. She was completely wasted so I had to help her get into a comfortable position. I got a blanket and tucked her in.

As I was saying good night to her, she suddenly grabbed my head and kissed my mouth. Her breath really stank. She was a bit smelly and stinky in general, but somehow I got turned on by her kiss and her smell. She asked me why I wouldn’t want to fuck her, in a tone that made me think that she felt rejected.
I had a hard-on at that point, was drunk myself and I don’t get to kiss or let alone have sex a lot. So my sense of responsibility was down and I asked her whether she really wanted that.

The woman went off the sofa, got on the ground, lifted up her skirt and pulled down her undies. I looked at her big arse and couldn’t resist any longer. I got my stiff dick out and rubbed it over her arse. I considered fucking her arse, but I didn’t have any lube so I would have to settle with her pussy. I pressed my penis into her pussy, which was hard at first as she was still dry. The woman didn’t complain and I happily started pumping as I got it in. She got wetter in the process and I held to her arse as I enjoyed my free fuck. Only towards the end of the fuck I remembered that I should probably also play with her boobs so I leaned over and got hold of her boobs bouncing in the rhythm of the fuck. I couldn’t get them out properly because she was still wearing a bra, but i got to feel something.

The woman just groaned a little bit and let it all happen, she didn’t do much. I felt that I would cum soon and pulled out. I sprayed the sperm on her arse. Fortunately, there were tissues nearby, so I quickly wiped her arse clean. I wanted to make sure she couldn’t get pregnant. It was already bad enough what I had done.

Wiping my sperm off her arse, I couldn’t help but stare at her rosetta. The temptation was too big, I put my mouth on it and licked her arsehole, stuck my tongue deep inside. She was really smelly, but I couldn’t stop. I licked her arsehole and kissed her arse afterwards. I heard her giggle as I was licking, but she just let me do it and didn’t say anything. When I was done, I thanked her.

The woman just rolled on the bed and put the blanked around her. She said it was all good and she was happy that I let her sleep on my sofa. I kissed her ear and wished her a good night. I just went to bed.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next morning I woke up due to the woman moving in the main room. I got up as fast as possible and put some clothes on, but she was already gone by the time I entered my main room. By the time I had found my keys and could follow her on the street, she had already disappeared. I wanted to apologise to what had happened, wanted to make sure she is fine and find out whether there is anything I could do for her. Alas, I couldn’t find her.

The woman hadn’t stolen anything out of my apartment, she also had left nothing behind. I could almost believe that the event hadn’t happened if it had not been from a sore that I got on my penis when I pressed it into her dry pussy.

I don’t feel too bad about what had happened that strange night. She had clearly asked for it. I was drunk, hadn’t had sex for a long time so the temptation had been too hard to resist.

I got tested to make sure I hadn’t caught a disease off that woman. You never know, she seemed to be pretty loose with her body.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Intoxication, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Completely wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, I don’t know what she was on, but I suspect it wasn’t only alcohol.

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my brother, he thought it was a very dirty story and that i shouldn’t have done that.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively negative

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? Even though the woman had told me I could fuck her and even said I should, I still feel I have taken advantage of her drunken state. Also, I had sex with someone that I had only seen for an hour at max. It was pretty dirty.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Getting my penis inside a moist pussy after a long time. I don’t get to fuck very often, so I am happy I had that opportunity.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? maybe the guilt I sometimes have when i think about it. I had to realise my willpower isn’t as strong as it should be. I probably shouldn’t have fucked her. Apart from the moral problem, there was also the risk I get her pregnant or I catch a disease. I just shoved my penis in without any consideration for that.

I also don’t know what happened to the woman, I hope she is doing fine.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I was a bit shocked how lightly this woman took a serious affair such as sex.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? This event was the only casual sex I have ever had in my life. I am generally not the type for casual sex. I don’t want to offend women so I have a hard time approaching them. I don’t think I would be very successful, would I try to pursue casual sex.

Of course, i want to have more sex. but I also think that people should be more careful what they do with their bodies. I can imagine casual sex can be a very hurtful experience to women. Maybe this woman I fucked has deep regrets about this now.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Reading those stories makes me feel envious about all the other people having a lot of sex when I don’t.

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