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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 54
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Torrance, CA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Education
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Over 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

“Fucking In A Flex”

How long ago did this hookup happen? About 2 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (open)

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My wife is a hot little brunette with beautiful blue eyes and a yummy plump ass. She gets mistaken for ten years younger than she is. Our friend, J, is stocky Latino dude. I started talking to him on a swinger’s site. We planned to just meet, nothing else, at a local bar. I showed my wife his pic and she thought he was attractive, but not really motivated about him. We always say pics are good, but nothing beats meeting someone in person. We were never more correct than in this situation.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We got to the bar a little early to get a drink to calm the nerves. It was a holiday weekend. I was thinking to myself that I hoped she would like him. I was confident he would like her. A guy walked into the bar and came in our direction with the biggest grin so we knew it was him. I glanced at my wife hoping she’d agree. To my great surprise, she lit up the room with her wonderful smile. I thought to myself, this could be fun! He came up to her giving her a hug and light kiss on the lips. From there, the night went well with conversation. She was eating his words up. When she went to the restroom, I told him we might take this thing further and he was ecstatic. He said he was nervous. I told him she dug him. We just needed to talk about to her to see what she wanted to do. She returned, he and I were silent for a moment, but then I asked her if she wanted to get to know J better. I gulped and she was like she would like that. J then excused himself to try to book a motel nearby. We were gone like 15 minutes. We thought he chickened out so we proceeded to leave the bar. As we exited, he just got off the phone. He couldn’t get a room. We were bummed and my wife suggested another time, but I wanted to get this party started so I told her we all could talk in our Ford Flex. My wife was apprehensive, but I explained that she would do only what she was comfortable with. I thought she would say no, but she said we could all talk some more in the car. So we got into the back of the Flex.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end?

As we all got in, there was no one on the street and it was very quiet. My wife sat in between us. We were all grinning like crazy so I just told J he could kiss my wife if he wanted to. He asked her if she would like that and before I knew it, they were entangled in a lover’s embrace while I watched. I then got close to her to kiss her neck and caress her body while J started to explore her with his hands. Our breathing was the only sound in the car with my wife’s being the most vocal so I knew we had her hot. My wife then pulled out our cocks to stroke us both off. We simultaneously caressed her body and then began to take turns fingering her tight cunt. She ate up this attention and showed her appreciation by sucking each one of us off. We got her clothes off and both undressed. Now we all were in the back seat of the car nude. J then had the good sense to get between her legs and lap up her pussy with his tongue. I then started kissing and licking her lips and tits which threw her over the edge. J then came up and asked her if she wanted to ride his cock. You could hear a pin drop as she got on top of him facing him. I sat back to watch. They both stared into each other’s eyes like old lovers as she pumped his hard rod. He was moaning and she was telling him how great he felt inside her. I was mesmerized and jacked off at this site. My wife was possessed and jammed herself into him like a piston. Their breaths got louder and the Flex had to be rockin’! It got louder and their movements faster until they both let out a sigh of release as he emptied himself into her. They stayed attached to each other for a brief time kissing and giggling at what they had done. Then she climbed off of him and unto me telling me that this is what I wanted. I wholeheartedly agreed as we began our lover’s coupling. She did me just like she had done J. J, in the meantime, was cheering us on encouraging me to fuck her hard, saying how tight her pussy was, and telling me to blow my liquid in her. I did and it felt great! Those sloppy seconds really were mind-blowing! She had cum dripping out of her, but she sucked both of us off again. I told him to take her again and he did! She mounted him and just went bonkers! He lasted a little longer but didn’t disappoint her as he flooded in her again. The bitchin’ part of this was that you could hear her drenched cum whole manipulating his prick in a loud manner with each thrust they gave each other. They finished in their embrace again kissing and laughing. Then we just sat in the back talking, laughing, and enjoying the moment as we slowly dressed.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After this hookup, we have met seven more times. She really enjoys his big cock. I’ve taken pics of them together to relive these times. It’s beyond hot. We’ve fucked her at the house, in cars, and the garage. It’s unfortunate that our schedules don’t match well otherwise I’d let him fuck her any time he wanted to.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Sterilization

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Making new friends

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A good friend of mine.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I like watching my wife enjoy herself and get off!

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Want it more.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It’s great! Do it!

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s a cool outlet!

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!