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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 21
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Georgia
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Professional 9 to 5
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 25
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Fucking My Friend’s Boyfriend

How long ago did this hookup happen? Still happening

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was y’all of course and light brown. I had gone to school with him so I knew a bit much about him. We’d never hooked up before. I met them at school. I felt as though we were just friends really cool friends.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The hookup began at his house. He came over one day with his friend; we smoked and he sent me a text like you playing or some shit and I was like, “boy that be you.” Planning was never involved. We were both just single at the time because our lovers were BESTFRIEND’s at the time. He instigated it.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I mean during the hookup it was pretty clear what happened. He ate me out and I sucked his dick. I felt a little bit wrong because he was so big and he was literally hurting me. So I was like wow this is what I get for being a little whore. He loved it from what I can tell. He was good. We didn’t really talk about much after. It hasn’t ended we’re still having Dez; just had it the other day.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup, I felt good but very guilty. I didn’t want anything more from him because I knew it wouldn’t be right our friends were to close to being friends. I still have a crush on him.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, To feel more desirable, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely, Power / Dominance, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Not at all

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? JUST ONE

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? His dick was so big,

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? His dick was so big

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not at all.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? We are still currently having sex except for this time he’s moved in with his girlfriend which is still my friend and we fucked in their apartment.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex is just out for me. The role it has for me is it’s just sex no major role in my life.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Don’t really care for it lol

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!