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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 41
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? Europe
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Accountant
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Married and enjoying sex outside of the marriage
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 23
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2

Fucking Three Men In 24h

How long ago did this hookup happen? October 2018

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? So I am married to this handsome, intelligent and successful man. He is the father of my two daughters and we have a good life together. I don’t know why I cheat, but I do. We have been together for more than 20 years. He has recently mentioned he would consider an open relationship, but I don’t trust this as I think he would be very upset to know I sleep around.
One of the guys I sleep with, M, I see about once a week at his apartment, have been for over a year, we text all the time. He is not very handsome but we have amazing, adventurous sex and he takes good care of me. The other one, C, is a guy who lives in the States and I see him whenever we are in the same city, either here or over there. He is one of my biggest crushes ever because he is very, very good-looking and cool. Not a very communicative guy tho. I have shared a story about him before.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? This particular time I was going to the States for a week. My husband wanted to have goodbye sex the night before I left. It was good, intense and sweaty lovemaking. I almost always orgasm when I have sex with him. He was happy and I was happy but also a little worried… as I knew I was meeting M the next morning. My flight wasn’t until the afternoon. But M picked me up and we had some hours at his apartment and had one of the best sessions ever. He fucks me so so good and always makes sure there are toys, champagne, and food. I showered and he took me to the airport, so very sweet. I was texting husband, M, and C while waiting in line for my delayed flight.
I arrived 7 hours later. I was staying with a friend, but she wasn’t feeling very well so didn’t want to go out. C invited me over to his house.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Sex with husband was intense and full of love and attention. I sucked his large cock, and he fucked me from behind, sideways. He touches my nipples exactly how I like it.
Sex with M is kinky, we fuck in the shower, I have a buttplug at his house, we do anal. He ties me up, he fucks me anyway we like. His dick is good, nice size, but especially flexible which makes for a lot of different interesting positions. He can make me squirt a little and my orgasms are good. We talk, laugh and I think he is actually very into me. I am not in love, but I really enjoy sex with him. He is a perfect side lover: sex, attention, no feelings. The only downside is that he can be a bit shady about other women.

Then sex with C, I have had some very hot nights with him before. Mainly because I am so very impressed by his good looks. And he is usually a great lover. This time he was happy to see me again after more than a year. We chatted on his couch, drank a cider. We kissed a bit, but he is not really into it. He fucked me on the couch, he came very soon. I was soooo disappointed! And I told him… like wow you just came and now you’re ready to send me away! But he then started fingering me, quite hard but very good. So good I squirted all over his couch, not a little but A LOT. He kissed me, played with my nipples, and then fucked me doggy, over the side of the couch. He has a huge dick. He came again and so did I. I was exhausted, but happy he still made up for funny round 1.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I took an uber from C’s apartment back to my friend’s house. I was very impressed and pleased with myself and my ability to round up my favorite guys for sex within 24h. It all worked out. And none of them know this is what went down…

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) IUD (Intrauterine device), Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Thought it was an important experience to have

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Some friends. They thought it was cool.

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The experience of having three guys who are very different from each other, but I enjoyed all of it! For different reasons.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? cheating on my husband

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really. Maybe gave me more sense of ‘I can do whatever the fuck I want’ which is a powerful feeling.
I also know what I like, being dominated by good-looking guys. But I also know I need to be treated right and communication and attention is also important to me. C lacks this a bit.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I enjoy reading stories very often. I would like to read more powerful stories by women. Sometimes the White American guy fucking his married neighbour or a prostitute gets a bit old lol.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!