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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 40
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Brisbane
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? IT Analyst
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Exploration, fun
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Full Swap Foursome

How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 days

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? A hot couple we saw having fun in an orgy earlier that night in our favorite swingers club. My wife and I found them attractive.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? No planning, we saw them having sex alone later that night and asked them if we could come in, they immediately accepted.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started touching each other as we were both fucking our respective partners doggy style. The other guy asked if I could do his wife from behind while he watched, which I readily accepted, my wife started touching our genitals and rubbing her clitoris until she came. We then swapped to him doing my wife, the other woman touching my wife’s pussy to make her cum and my wife giving me a blowjob. Sexual intensity was high, we didn’t talk, just moaned.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Great session, would interact with them again if we saw them

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Only my wife and I know

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? My wife enjoying caressing and being caressed by another woman, it was very hot

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not long enough

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex with others has added spice to our already great relationship and sex life. I wished that ‘social sex’ became more accepted

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great way to share our secrets when there’s no other avenue, also of sharing how enjoyable it can be

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!