The Casual Sex Project Logoby Confused but Happy

Gender: Male
Age: 39
Race/ethnicity: White
Location: Pennsylvania
Highest education received: Some college
Occupation: Director
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
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Fun in Sales

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 days ago

How would you best classify this hookup? Not sure yet

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Stunningly attractive. From the moment I met her I was very attracted. She works in sales for a client. I thought felt a spark between us immediately.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Very casually walking to her office I felt something between us more than ever. Certainly the drinks helped ease any inhibitions. No planning involved. Not sure who pulled the trigger but prior to leaving her office I turned the lights out as we approached the door and we kissed immediately after. We all but started taking our clothes off on the spot but I felt that was too risky being where she works.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After going to my room we were naked in moments kissing then she dropped and started oral on me. Amazing. The passion was amazing. She must have been self-conscious a little since she would not let me perform for her – at that point. We had incredible chemistry and the positions flowed and everything clicked for being a first time better than I have ever experienced. Her body being nothing short of VS perfect – round 2 followed quickly after a sweaty and wonderful first. Orgasms for her I believe exceed a one hand count and my 2 were perfect. We ended with her having to leave for another room were her friend was staying.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None.
We spoke after, both indicating all clear.
Me being snipped, pregnancy not a worry – and both endings were in her mouth which was just amazing.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I wish I had something more but it’s the thrill that gets me. Plus her beauty.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? A bit of drinking but I don’t think either of us were drunk.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Conflicted since we both are in committed relationships. I want her again I know that for sure. Beyond that – no clue.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one yet. I am certain I will tell my one best friend. That will be the only other person who knows.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes and yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? A little with my current girl, but I can’t stop thinking of her.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Amazing sex – simply amazing.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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