by Peter the South
Race/ethnicity: White European
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Relationship status: Married
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 8
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Fun With an Employee
How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 months
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Fuck buddies
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? tall, blond, good looking girl, member of my staff. was always on my “radar”!
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? started at a company party with no real sex, just kissing and some “imitation-sex”, BUT with a promise. few days later i came back to the “promise”.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? vaginal and oral, incl. swallowing (new experience for me – damn great!). felt great. we met for approx two weeks with around 10-12 times sex. i had always an orgasm, my sex buddy mostly. she was a great lover knowing especially how to work orally. ended because i changed company and area.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? we talked about STIs, nothing more. we used condoms and “pills for the day after” (sry, don’t know the exact word).
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? as i mentioned: tall, blond, good looking. but also because there was this magic magnet pulling us together. and to be honest: i was like a hunter to “get” her (probably the same for her).
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? no
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? after two weeks of having sex, the story ended. hope to get more sex with her if it suits. feelings are sth like “hey, it was damn cool”!
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? one friend, he was listening and then saying that he had thought that we would have had sex.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? yep, and i think for both of us it was a wanted experience.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? no
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? having much sex in a short time, just as it is at the beginning of a relationship. her oral performance 🙂 nothing to regret, so nothing worse. no changes in my thinking/behavour.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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