What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 18
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? South America
What country and/or city do you live in? San Antonio
Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
How long ago did this hookup happen? About a year ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was tall and skinny, always thought he was ugly or whatever but his curly hair was cute. But when I met him I didn’t consider him or see him as I did after actually meeting him. We had never really had a real conversation just a weird little beef since I broke up with his best friend, oops? We first met in my science class but he basically said what was on his mind and he was weird so I just didn’t really wanna be friends with him them, but yeah I had no sexual attraction to him or was not attracted to him.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? WELL back then I got my schedule changed and we ended up having 1 long class together and we kinda started hanging out. He was EXTRA clingy because then I started seeing him in all of my classes, but he grew on me because me and him had a connection but not a romantic way but in a best friends kind of way. Then one day we were being little freaks in my classroom and we were usually left alone in our corner, he told me to shut up and me being me I told him to make me and I guess since he was an unknown freak he started rubbing my vag through my pants and boy did that shut my little smart ass up. So I don’t know why but I found it as a turn on and texted him if he wanted to come to chill the next day and he said it. We hung out outside till he went home around 8 every few days and teasing each other on the low. Then people would see him at my house as ask if we are friends with benefits but we automatically said no since we didn’t even think about that. Anyways, he started coming inside, and his first time inside I don’t know how but I ended on his lap and I automatically felt his hard-on between my lower lips of course with clothes in between and well before he left that night. He took advantage of me being soaking wet and fingered me with his long finger which failed because I was a virgin so it was all new to me and hurt so he switched fingers which went in a lot smoother but we only had a few friends that knew what happened behind closed doors along with us
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It became a regular thing, we always did different positions but hard part was my door was always open so it was tricky with me having a whole family around but we did it. Majority of times he would come over after school and we would give each other orally and then we had sex but we didn’t kiss for like the whole 3 months of having sex. So then one day we were having an argument and suddenly he kissed me and me being the horny fuck I am, began the make-out session. Anyways we didn’t have sex that day and spent like a whole 30 minutes arguing in between kissing and yeah he was still like my best friend because we thought each other was hot or decent but never caught emotional feelings. We just gamed and talked which ended up to laughing. But then we had switched schools and so we didn’t have much time together during weekdays and was busy weekends. Last but not least we ended up getting into relationships and we still talk as regular friends now and smoke the magic plants together in the am.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Well it’s over with now for like not even a year yet but a while but I was sad at first because he turned me into a bigger freak hoping and now my current boyfriend doesn’t give me the sexual attention I need and the last time I checked he was in a totally opposite situation to me. So how do I feel about them now? Very very envious. But he’s a good person and I hope their relationship last a long time.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My first friend called me a hoe but then remained calm since it was my first body, the second was happy that I finally lost the cherry like she did recently, the third freaked out and didn’t believe lets call him Gerald at first but then just went along with it and surprisingly kept it to himself and his gf *cough* the first one *cough* the last I got into an argument with her and now currently don’t talk to her anymore, also am not sure who else knows since im sure she did tell other people.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? I had to break it to my boyfriend and he made me stop talking to him and my boyfriend still reminds me about it and how he wanted to be my first.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The vibe we had; he was like my other half of
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? We wouldn’t get together because of a person I also dated
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, I just crave sex more. No, I’m not someone who sleeps around I haven’t been getting a dick in my vagina for 7 months
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? It was good while it lasted
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