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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 27
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Wichita
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Data analyst.
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Heterotomantic, bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 100+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Random assortment. Grindr. Only knew one.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I said I wanted a bigger gangbang than I’d had before. My gay friend said he’s knew a few and could get more on Grindr. Set it up for two weeks after.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I got fucked in the ass by 30+ guys, gave blowjobs to about ten more and fisted by a couple of them. I ate a lot of ass as well, but only by the guys who shaved their asses, which was about ten. They passed me around like a piece of meat. It felt amazing just being used like a sex object. They and I had no regard for my humanity. They fucked me nine ways to Sunday. Some of them were gentle, but most were very rough, slapping and spanking me. I even got choked out once. We went to the bathroom and several of them pissed on me. We went back to the bedroom and fucked some more and they started cumming on and in me. After the sex was done, the ones who hadn’t already came came on my face. I then squirted all the cum that was in me out and ate it. The rest of the guys left except my friend. He fucked me, came in me, and left. I was barely awake, having been up for over 24 hours ( the gangbang lasted about 12) so I fell asleep on my kitchen floor, still covered in cum and piss. I didn’t shower for two days afterward. Pretty sure I smelled terrible lol. Didn’t care. Just jerked off about 20 times in those couple days still Extremely turned on.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt still very turned on the next day, but pretty dirty and sore. I had no expectations. I did see a few of them at other gangbangs.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Thought it was an important experience to have, Submission / Relinquishing power

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Poppers (Amyl Nitrate)

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish, Cocaine, MDMA, ecstasy, molly, Poppers (Amyl Nitrate)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I’ve never told anyone other than those involved and others in the gay community.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Being used and dehumanized.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Soreness.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general?  O

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Wasn’t my first or last gangbang, but by far the biggest.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think it’s awesome. Unlike me, it should be done safely. I got chlamydia and gonorrhea several times, but fortunately no hiv.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it’s awesome.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!