What’s your gender? Man
What’s your race/ethnicity? East Asian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Sydney
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Doctor
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Bicurious
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 days ago
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? 175cm, 75kg, Asian guy. Okay looking, okay body. I knew him from high school but lost touch for a couple years. We hugged and groped each other a bit under influence of ecstasy in the past.
Didn’t think Asian guys were my type. I’d watch gay porn with twinky white guys sometimes. I’m in a 2.5 yr relationship with an Asian girl.
We both went to a legal brothel earlier that night, where he didn’t come and I did.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Came back from a NYE party to his place, took more ecstasy, then a friend gave us some GHB. Both of us were on his bed, pantsless, with the other guy sitting in a chair. We’ve get high together in a group sometimes. We get pretty huggy on ecstasy, and GHB spiked arousal levels. Neither of us planned for this to happen. I showered first and didn’t wear any pants/shirt when I came out.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I got on top of him and started groping his cock then dry humping, all the while talking about our past sexual experiences. I’ve played around very seldom with guys in the distant past and a transexual before. He’s been single and lonely for a while, been in 5-year long term relationship with a girl.
I started to suck his cock, and later he reciprocated. I mentioned I loved being rimmed, and he obliged. We kept kissing and touching each other up while the other guy kept giving us nitrous oxide hits. He got hard and fucked my mouth for a while but didn’t cum. I joked he could fuck my ass if he wanted to too but he declined. I felt slutty and dirty and slightly embarrassed doing this in front of another (straight, slightly homophobic) guy, who has a girlfriend that mentioned she likes seeing guys hookup. It felt good and we were all pretty comfortable with each other so we kept going.
We all drifted off to sleep and woke up in the afternoon, (the other guy left). I talked about what happened last night, on the floor on his beanbag, then started sucking his cock. It’s only about 1inch long when soft and is hidden by so much pubic hair, but gets 4.5-5inch when hard, not too thick. I could almost deepthoat it and lick his balls too. I got him horny and mentioned I wanted to sit on his cock. We both stripped and got on the bed. I got him to lie down, lube up, and I rode his cock bareback (he’s been single and had no sex, and I’ve been monogamous for a while now), so we took a risk. Luckily I was clean too.
This is only the 3rd penis I’ve ever taken, but it felt the best. After some initial pain, I got into it more and more, rocking and grinding on him and talking dirty. Eventually, I got into doggy on the edge of the bed, ass in the air, and he fucked me harder and harder. I was talking dirty and running my mouth, about how hard he was and how he was fucking me so well, and how full I felt. I reached back and played with his balls. We tried to do missionary, but he got too tired and sweaty. So we took a break, used a few more nitrous hits, and slept a bit. Neither of us had cum yet, but I couldn’t get hard due to the drugs still in my system, and he was desensitised from too much porn.
I was still horny, so started watching porn and masturbating, but was quite difficult to get off. He was passed out naked next to me, but I loved how comfortable we were with each other, even though I don’t see this guy regularly.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We were both a bit tired from lack of sleep and drugs. We talked briefly about it and both agreed we were cool with what happened. My girlfriend is overseas and I still want to see him to play more before she comes back because I’m a horny fucker eager for sexual experiences. I may want to try to get the other guy’s girlfriend to watch and maybe masturbate, since he tells us her libido is a lot higher than his, and I think she’s fucking cute too. Hopefully, she’d join in with us…
We will probably still hang out occasionally, but I wonder what the vibe will be like, and if he’ll tell anyone else…
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, I don’t know if my partner was on any (other) method
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Thought it was an important experience to have, Intoxication, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? MDMA, ecstasy, molly, GHB, “roofies”, Nitrous oxide
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? MDMA, ecstasy, molly, GHB, “roofies”, Nitrous oxide
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? The third guy who was in the room with us initially. He didn’t see the anal part and we didn’t tell him. Yet.
He’s cool with it as long as we had fun I think
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? Cheated on my girlfriend with a guy. It might lead to repeated occurrences later or might make me bisexual and harder to settle down if I wanna get fucked or suck a cock occasionally.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Felt good being comfortable with each other’s bodies enough to do this for the physical sensations/pleasures, both of us are fairly hetero and told each other that initially
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? My butt is a little sore XD, and I keep wanting cock.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Always thought I was pretty open to all kinds of sex, and it’s great to know I actually am. I want to do more exploring, maybe with girls involved, and more group sex possibly.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? As long as everyone is safe consenting and having fun, people should fucking go for it. Life’s too short to have fears about sex holding anyone back, and having regrets about not trying things they’ve fantasised about. I used to be so anti drug…but have had my viewpoint (and butthole) opened, only have had positive experiences with rec drug use, and just doing what feels good.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? This is a great forum to see what others are doing, distract yourself from life, and read some sexy stories for a bit.
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