What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 56
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Northern Europe
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? editor
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Gay/lesbian
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 150+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 20 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? “Robbie” – inexperienced and curious, early 20s, fit but not buff, a bit surly. “George” – bisexual but mostly gay, runners body, fairly hairy, mid-30s, salt&pepper, hair, very horny, soft-spoken but not shy. Met both online, Robbie some weeks earlier, George just then.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Robbie had previously agreed to meet up to jerk off together but backed out at the last minute. This time, he wanted to watch me feed my big cock to George. Despite it being a regular workday, we arranged online to meet up two hours later in mid-afternoon at a small park a block from my apartment.

After excusing myself from work to “run an errand,” I took the bus to the park. There, amazingly, both Robbie and George showed up at the given time. We went to my apartment.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As soon as we got inside the door, George was on his knees and going for my cock, rubbing it through my trousers, and I was hard immediately. Robbie stood at the other end of the room, watching with his hands in his own trousers, letting us know he was a bit dissatisfied with the situation, that George wasn’t as masculine as he said he was. George (who was plenty masculine, not that I care) and I, patient with the bratty newbie, took it in stride. I commanded George to take off his clothes and get sucking. His clothes were off in seconds and I pulled off my own shirt and lowered my trousers so he could have access to my cock. He was really sexy, on all fours, tonguing me through my boxer briefs before pulling my cock out and going at it.
He knew how to give great head, licking and sucking and taking as much as he could. We moved over to the other end of the room by Robbie, who had now taken his own hard cock out and was wanking it.
I told George to play with himself while he sucked me, which he did avidly, and that really got me going. I told him I was gonna cum and pulled out of his mouth, but as I started to spurt he pulled me back in, jerking himself all the time and making appreciative noises.
Robbie was jerking more seriously now and George looked up at me, then at Robbie, wanting to suck Robbie’s cock too. “Do it,” I said giving Robbie a look. He jerked some more, shut his eyes and put his cock into George’s waiting mouth. He opened his eyes, looking down at George, totally turned on. I moved closer to him, my still hard cock inches from his hand – I could sense that he really, really wanted to grab my cock but he was conflicted about it. Lust won out, and as George sucked him, he reached out and started playing with my cock, cumming not long after.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? It was definitely hot. Especially George, who I met up with alone a couple times after that, including once having him come to my apartment early in the morning to take care of my morning wood. I chatted online with Robbie a couple of times, but nothing more than that.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I’ve never talked with anyone about it.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? George on all fours, wanking himself while joyously sucking cock.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Robbie was kind of a brat, it took persuading for him to take part rather than just watching even if we could see that he really wanted it. I assumed this was due to his own conflicts about his sexuality and his inexperience.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? no

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex = fun stuff + nobody gets hurt! What’s not to like? Too bad society frowns upon it.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Keep up the good work!

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