by Maria

Gender: Female
Age: 26
Race/ethnicity: Latin
Current location: Netherlands
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
Occupation: Student
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Catholic
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 16
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Gelato And Felatio

How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 months

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Oral to a stranger

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? 28-year-old Italian guy. Tall, muscular-slim, dark hair, short beard, penetrating dark eyes. I did not know him at all. He was a complete stranger that was partying with his friends at a street close to the place where I was staying.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was spending a couple of weeks traveling around Italy with some friends. One night, after dinner, we decided to get some gelato for dessert. We walked around the city while enjoying our gelato. Afterwards, it was time for each of us to go its way. We were tired so we call the night off relatively early.
One of my friends (another girl) and I walked together for a bit longer than the rest, since we were staying nearby. Two streets before reaching my hotel, a bunch of young Italians were celebrating the graduation of one of them. We watched them singing and drinking. They seemed really happy.
One of the guys approached and asked me, in Italian, to go up his motorcycle for a short ride. I thought that the guy was really attractive but the proposal was too random that I did not know how to react. My friend convinced me to do it, so I went up, hugged him from behind, and he drove away for a couple of blocks before driving back. He left me with my friend, I thanked him for the ride, and he went back to their celebration.
My friend and I split at that moment. She turned left and I walked alone to the right.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The Italian guy approached me again and offered to drive me home with his motorcycle. I told him that I was not too far but he insisted. He left me at the door, stared at me, came really close but without touching, and asked me if he could go up. I looked deep inside his eyes and I remember perfectly how I stopped to think whether I should do it or not. His stare made me feel so horny that I told to myself “why not?”. 
We went up to my room and began kissing on my bed. We did not say a word since his english was terrible and I don’t speak any Italian. Things spiced up between us and he began to undress me and to get naked. We touched each other and he did me oral. I did the same to him. I was really wet and wanted him inside me so I grabbed a condom from my drawer and gave it to him. He tried to use it but didn’t feel comfortable with it so he ended up removing it. I told him that without a condom he could not penetrate me. He tried to convince me but I was very strong about this so we ended up just giving hand and oral to each other. Still was very enjoyable. 
Before that night I had spent around 3 months without anything with a guy (not even a kiss) so it felt fantastic to feel his warm skin next to mine and his tongue running over my body. I blew him until he came. We spent about one hour just hugging each other and touching gently. Then I asked him to leave because I was getting tired and wanted to sleep. He was not happy with me kicking him out. He wanted to stay but I did not feel comfortable: after all, he was a stranger I picked up from the street and who was drinking a lot of alcohol before we met. He gave me his phone number and told me to call him. As soon as he left and I laid down in bed again I regretted a little my decision. It would have been nice to have someone to hold during the night.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? He did but I didn’t. Still enjoyable, tho.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I insisted on the condom and since he did not want to use one he did not penetrated me.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? He was really attractive and with powerful eyes. The situation was so random that it made me horny. It had been a while without me having anything. I wanted him and could not think of any reason why not doing it.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? He was drunk but I was not.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? A week later I sent a message to his cellphone number asking him if he wanted to meet me up for some drinks. Honestly, I just wanted to have sex but felt awkward being too explicit in the message. He never replied.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I sent an email to my best friend back home telling him the story. He could not believe how kinky everything was and said he was proud of me.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes. I was perfectly aware of what I was doing.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Only because he did not penetrate me. I wanted it so badly but I’m not stupid enough to do it with an absolute stranger without a condom.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I believe this is the most adventurous sexual encounter I have ever had and that makes me feel kinky and sexy. I was not looking for anything. I was wearing some old sweatshirt and  zero make up, and I still manage to attract a handsome guy. It was so surreal that it made it exciting.
The worst part was when he did not replied my message for another hook up. It made me think that maybe he was more drunk than I thought, and for a moment I began questioning why he had done it. I got the impression that perhaps he does not remember what happened and that disappointed me.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? I used to think that blow jobs were something very intimate but that night I really enjoyed doing it for him. It made me horny to be the one giving him pleasure.

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