by Ellen

Gender: Female
Age: 44
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Location: Canada
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
Occupation: Nurse
Relationship status: Partnered
Religious affiliation: Catholic
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Straight
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 25
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None


How long ago did this hookup happen? One year

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Was going to berlin for a trip posted an ad on craigslist. After weeding out the replies met Neils agreed to meet the Friday night I was in town.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Met in the hotel bar after extensive emailing of sexual likes and desires

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We got along great. He loved to go down on me. I sat on his face and he sucked at my clit. That’s pretty much the bomb for me to cum. Came multiple times. Also fucked a lot, would stop take a break talk then go back to fucking. Amazing night we both were immediately relaxed with each other.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Condoms. No std talk

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? To get over a previous lover, to stop feeling bad, to know I could achieve orgasm again.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No, a glass of wine each.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We still keep in touch see him when I go to Berlin. We both talk about our other hookups he is more monogamous long standing lovers and I am more constant sex partners. I had and have feelings for him.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Best friend who actually is gay so he was totally supportive.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Never, you cannot regret it because we clicked and connected so well. I am actually jealous of his women even though we live an ocean apart and I fuck other men.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best was we saw each other again. Same amazing time. Worst I have feelings for him and even though I fuck others I still compare.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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